2006-06-19 02:37:42 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't mess with your bestfriends boyfriend unless you are sure it is going to lead to something longterm and you want something short term with your friend.
2006-06-19 02:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rev Mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of the reasons WHY you like him. 9 times out of 10, you like their relationship, not him personally!! You NEVER touch your girls MAN~before or after they are broke up!! #1 rule~stay away.....friends are way more important than stupid~boys.....you could just be liking the way they are~how he gives her compassion~love~the way he looks at her~ this is something in you that you want, you want for someone to treat you as he does her, that is why you could be thinking you want him~you just want the way their relationship looks, not him personally!!! Always remember, may be nice to LOOK at but the grass is not always greener on the other side, once you get the man home~they are all the same~may be different and great at first, but then they all turn into little boys~not much difference between man to man!!!!! Just remember think long and hard before you do anything, and friends are forever~boyfriends are just there to play with for a little while~
2006-06-19 02:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by click 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you like your best friend boyfriend you should tell your best friend, that would be better then you and the boyfriend ending up having a secret relationship and her finding out that you are. If you tell her before something happen you could keep a friend instead of making an enemy.
2006-06-19 02:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Linda G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly normal to like your best friends boyfriend, since chances are you are spending some significant amount of time around the two of them also. BUT - treat their relationship as sacred ground. Consider this... I'm sure your best friend wants your approval in him, which it already sounds like you do definitely approve. Yet at the same time, you wish it were yourself involved with him? Don't go there with him. You'll come to regret it in the long run, and if you value your best friend and the relationship that you and she already share, you'll also respect her relationship, both during and after they break up (if at all). Good luck!
2006-06-19 02:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats all like him and dont cross the line because you will loose your bestfriend learn now that is not what you do to your friends it is a betrayel and you will get a bad reputation for being a boyfriend stealer so just be careful because you will be the one getting hurt in the long run
2006-06-19 02:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu don't do anything! That is taboo, just going in that territory could be bad, because if your best friend finds out then you could lose her and then on top of that the boy may not feel the same and then you have lost twice. Just find your own boyfriend and forget about the other.
2006-06-19 02:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously take a second look in the mirror and say to yourself "What is wrong with you?". Apparently you have no respect for your best friend or yourself. Did you know that having awful "THOUGHTS" are just as bad as acting out on them? My question to you would be "Why do you want something that isn't yours? Why would you even think long and hard about this knowing it would crush your best friend? Do you seriously consider yourself a friend?
2006-06-19 04:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him if you want to maintain your friendship with your bestfriend. Men come and go, but bestfriends are very hard to find!
2006-06-19 04:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Nyarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u go fantasizing about him, why do u even have to allow ur feelings to get like that, thats not ur territory, if u want a boyfriend go get urself one and not ur bestfriend's boyfriend, think about how ur bestfriend loves u and how she's going to get hurt when she finds out u want her boyfriend, u will have to ignore ur feelings or stay away from him.
2006-06-19 03:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Just be her best friend and hands off her boyfriend. You're better off getting over her boyfriend and finding another guy that's better than him. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-19 02:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Individual0220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋