I got a gift from a co-worker, a clock for a desk,she engraved it with her name to my name, i don't want to tell my wife, but if she finds out i got what is she going to think, i know this friend has a crush on me, she told me. i just talk to her, i am marry, i don't like her, only as a friend.
2006-06-19 02:27:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honesty is the best policy. your wife should understand if you tell her the whole truth and how you feel. Don't hide it.
2006-06-19 03:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Return the gift and tell her straight up that it is inappropriate and that you're married to the woman of your life. and that if this doesn't stop, you'll report her. Document it so that you have proof of her sexual harassment. Any unwanted attentions from one worker to another is sexual harassment. Then distance yourself from her "as a friend". Friends don't do this to others. Tell your wife what you are going to do about it. This has the potential to boomer rang onto you, that's why you should document it. If the coworker persists, tell your boss about it. You're not the one making trouble for her. She is. good luck!
2006-06-19 02:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly think that u should give it back. I know it sounds ungrateful but is it really worth your marriage??? U say u only like her as a friend..tell her that. I'd say it's best to tell your wife because she might think u r cheating if she hears is from someone else.
2006-06-19 02:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by amanda k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show the clock to ur wife before she finds out, or else she wont trust u anymore.
2006-06-19 02:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife..it looks worse if you hide it from her.
2006-06-19 02:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋