no boys like me like me. How can i make them like me? what can i do?
2006-06-19 01:55:53 · 48 answers · asked by summerbum1026 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i have and still they dont have crushes on me!
2006-06-19 02:00:23 · update #1
i am 12 and i never want to do it
2006-06-19 02:10:42 · update #2
Sweetie, there's plenty of time in your life for boys. At age 12 you should just enjoy being a kid...
2006-07-01 12:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being 12 and not having boys like you is not as important as most people make it out to be. You've got your whole life ahead of you. I know that sounds cliched but it holds a lot of truth. You won't need to worry about boys liking you yet because you're going to mature soon. Between the ages of 12 and 16 you will round out and become beautiful. Give yourself a few years, and soon you won't be able to keep the guys off of you. I'm sure you're beautiful just the way you are.
2006-07-02 15:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by SmartyPants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times, it feels like no one will ever like you. It's the age and all the chemicals going crazy in your body. When you feel like everyone around you has "someone," then you feel like a loser. What you don't know is what those people are going through to be with "someone".
What I tell my kids (16/f, 14/m, 12/f, 10/f, 8/f, 5/m) is that they need to focus on their education, not their sex life. Go to school. Finish college. When you do that, look around and see who else has done the same thing. These are the people who you will know have similar goals in life. You need to be the best person, inside, you can be as you go through the process, so get to know yourself. Find out what you like and don't like. Take some extra activities when you get back to school. Enjoy you. When you finish the process, you will be a person anyone will see as a prize.
Here's some final thoughts. If you do some things in life, say, get a b/f, those things can be taken from you. If you invest in yourself (ie, education, etc.), no one can take that away from you. You have to be a person that you want to be around, because you will always have you around. I do believe that God is preparing you for someone special. He is also preparing someone special for you. You don't want to be "going out" with someone handy when that someone special comes looking for you.
2006-07-01 19:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by lmtlssmnd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - You have to like you!!
Second - what do you mean Like you like you?
Third - If you are under the age of 21, you should not be concerned if some guys like you like you because those are not the ones for you- at this time.
And I just saw you are 12 - Girl you need to concentrate on who you are and what you want from life then wondering if boys like you. You have plenty of time for that - later- much later. Develop your self and mind first.
2006-06-19 02:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sa'Sat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will happen for you u only 12 years old the will like you at the age of 13 or 14
2006-06-29 11:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_chocolate@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there we see a nice young lady. miss the first step towards love is friendship. get friendly with a guy you like, know his interests and non-interests, likes and dislikes and establish a bond. don't propose him downright and don't wear your heart on your sleeve. when the time comes i.e when you think that he is close enough to open his heart out for you tell him...works in most cases. if it doesn't...wait for the right person...and darl love will happen when it has to...you're just 12...all i can say is that the guys are missing a fine young lady by not being with you...
bye sweety
2006-06-19 03:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much. Act naturally and be yourself. There maybe guys that likes you but doesn't know how to communicate with you or show that they are intersted with you. You have to be a friend to everyone but don't push yourself to them too much. Be helpful and show concern not just to boys but also to girls. Boys appreciate girls who are friendly and willing to lend a hand. Take your time, your prince charming will come. If you will rush things, it might be the frog you will meet.
2006-06-19 03:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA! first off your 12 no need to jump on the bandwagon! Lets wait until your going into 8th and high school before u start going out!
2006-07-02 12:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fat teenage person..than eat some choclate before you kiss them,and than let ur kiss goes around their lips,so they get all in chocolate
If you are old and not that smart,than talk in some caffe,but make shure ur dictionary is ok...
If you are dead.Than everybody will love you more than they did when you were alive
2006-06-19 02:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by maecrey11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard, there is something to be said for 'playing hard to get'
If you chase them, they see you as desperate, boy crazy, clingy and so on.
Wait, little girls become young woman, when you're really ready and I know you're not simply because you're asking how to MAKE them like you, they'll come to you.
Be patient, it's worth the wait.
2006-06-19 02:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by liathano70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋