i was goin arnd wid this guy hu's real handsome. and i soon realised that i was only infactuated. i dont love him tho he is a very good human being and cute. i wanted to retain him as a frend.. i dumped him and we bumped in2 each other and it all started again. i made him realise that i dont love him and he sed that it didnt matter coz he loved me. i started to avoid his calls and ignored him completely so that he would get irritated and leave me. i had tld him before breaking up that we could remain frnds. but he sed dat he'd rather b a stranger to me than a frnd. we dont speak anymore and iv lost him.. but i dont wanna lose him as a frend... i want him bak as a frend.. he's such a sweetheart, i dont want 2 let him go off.. but, im kinda sure, he wouldnt want frndshp and im scared that it might all start agan if i contacted him. wat do i do??
2006-06-19 01:32:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
...honor his wishes. He loves you in a different way. Let him be. Take time to heal from your loss and move on.
2006-06-19 01:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a guys thing.
they all react like that.
if he loves u, he can't be ur friend. he'd rather let u go for good!..
u should set ur priorities straight and clear ur thoughts.
know exactely what it is that u want, knowing that just hanging out isn't possible.
for God's sake.. he loves u!!
if the situation was reverse, could u handle it with just being his friend knowing that never ever things will evolve to what u dream of??
--i don't think so.
(think abt what u're putting him through)(have mercy on his soul)
2006-06-19 08:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Brillian† world-beyoundsur 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he's afraid of -- tell him you care for him so much that you don't want to lose him as a friend; that you feel good that he feels he loves you and you love him too but just in a different way. Tell him you need him in your life.
2006-06-19 08:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that was too much info. Just contact him obviously you want to or you wouldn't be asking. Ya know it's easier to read questions that are spelled right.
2006-06-19 08:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by pepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to say its kinda complex .lets face it he would never be your Friend bec if he did there would be always his attraction to you so it wont work out .you are hurting him now by saying you wanna be his friend only so it would be less hurtful to leave each other for good and never see each other again.
2006-06-19 08:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Angle heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im soory but aint no body stupid to read this long question
2006-06-19 08:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by ravennravennravenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry be happy.
i am here
2006-06-19 08:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by nil d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋