why only in america the woman do not feel that a man is very important in her life?

Answer 1

I am in America, and feel that my husband is VERY important in my life.

Answer 2

Think of people as a species....now break it down into male and female.....ok, the female has to attract the male with the latest fashion, trends, new technology, style, and her own unique personality. Now, you tell me do you think that after aquiring most of the above that a female couldn't use a break. Women love to be loved....if only men made themselves available to these women then most of them would welcome men with open arms, if the man is clearly not scum. Women's job is to attract, and the man's job is to pick a woman, make interesting conversation and actually stick around for a while. That's not how it usually goes, and sometimes a woman doesn't feel as if a man is very important in her life for just such a reason. They're too much trouble (with their flaws, their lies, and their cheating), when a woman can just help herself.

Answer 3

I was tempted to answer this question.‎

I should first emphasize, as many have already did, that it is wrong to generalize such ‎feeling.‎‎

Many have already answered that some American women are independent, and if I may ‎‎add, they feel that they have equal rights to men.‎ I guess some American women carry ‎this thought since they were involved in a relationship with a man who was not loving and ‎supportive. One main reason could be that many relations are not tied with the religious bond ‎of marriage; this gives each party the freedom to break-up whenever they feel they had ‎enough. When couples are not married, they feel that they are not obligated to raise a ‎child; it's mostly about having sex. When repeated disappointments come with premarital ‎relations, a woman feels that she had enough from a man that if he cannot serve her ‎purpose before marriage, he will not be able to serve her purpose after marriage.‎

In case you are wondering, I am a male, a Muslim, and not living in America. I thought ‎I’d share my opinion.‎

Answer 4

Men ARE important to women in America, I just think American women are more progressive in terms of putting the male ego in place by seeing that they as women have more options in terms of self-fulfillment. They have things in perspective. Look at other countries around the world. I come originally from a country where women put themselves and their lives, their needs on the back burner just to inflate the man's ego by making their relationships all about the man. Sometimes to the detriment of her health and finance (what finance?). Women in America may not have it all together nor have all the answers, but by God they (we) are trying and even you guys can see that or else you would not be asking this question. So hurray for women and even more so for the American woman out there working it !

Answer 5

Actually, i think that regardless of country it's the particular age we live in that has made this quite universally so ... plus women have been 'taught' today to focus on power, independence and money before the softness of their hearts!

Even though I'm Australian, I have a great deal to do with various Pacific Islanders and other Americans and Asians and Middle Easterners.
It is just the same especially with these islanders.

I think women generally have just lost the vision in all the feminist hype and indoctrination of the past 30 years or so.
I think they've just Lost the Plot!!

Answer 6

sorry to burst your bubble. I am not an American woman, but an European woman.

I certainly do not feel that a man is very important in my life.

Be careful of generalisations.

A lot of European women feel the way I do. I was talking to Asian and Australian friends about men over the years, and they do NOT feel they have to depend on men.

It is only the lonely desperate / insecure women who feel having a man in their lives is of vital importance.

Answer 7

It's not that they aren't "important" -- it's just that we are more independent I guess and we do not "NEED" a man in our lives to be happy is all. That doesn't mean when we fall in love that we don't need them - then they are a part of us. I would not raise a daughter to feel she HAD to have a man to make her whole because the truth is, until you feel whole as a person, how can you really share your love with them the right way?

Answer 8

Something called cultural difference? What culture did you come from that woman feels very important to have man in their life?

Answer 9

I don't know about your beliefs, but I am a strong beliver in my faith. And when God made man, he maid woman to be his helpmate (not his slave). See from the beginning women wasn't put here because she needed a man, but because man needed her. It is not that a man is not important in our lives, I respect my husband very much, the question is why men think that woman are not very important period?

Answer 10

American women since the conseption of Welfare and Legalization of Abortion have steadly lost the concept of Family and it's importance to Society. (not ALL women) The ability to spread their legs WITHOUT the Responsibility of the consquence's of getting Pregnant..... regardless of the ensueing Outcry from lesibans that will follow. The Enormous number of Children born to single women and the unpresedented Number of Abortions proves My point. As I am a single Dad of 3 son's from 2 women.... and My children havent seen their Mothers in years, although the door is always open, they dont even bother calling for years at a time and have NEVER offered assistance to their upbringing. ALTHOUGH both (and 1 set of In~laws!) illlegally have RECEIVED Welfare without haveing any Physical Custody hatsoever! Even going so far as to claim Fed Tax relief while I raise the boys without any assistance.... Bottom line.... American Women have compleatly lost their morals & values..... and I live My life knowing that they are of No more value to Me than a hand~job and use all that I know personally for the sluts that they are. (and they love it)