I mean because nobody ever wants to date me because I'm big, come on thats unfair.
2006-06-19 00:50:58 · 25 answers · asked by smart girl 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
OK no offense ........ being fat most of the time means that Ur lazy u dont do excersize u dont watch Ur diet u prob get tiered so quickly u are not flexible enough and u will have more health problems than lean ppl plus most modern outfits wont fit u and the most important thing is that males should be the harsh strong physically creatures and women should be the cute lil beautiful creatures so no guy would want a woman bigger than him that can beat the hell outta him . so that is something guys dont like but stel i know some few guys who find big women sexy
my advice to u is sport and diet and everyone one will want to go out with u
2006-06-19 01:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by DR. Raed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... it's like this...
Dating a big girl is like dating a smoker.
The theory is being overweight is "unhealthy". I work HARD to have a healthy body type. When you see a big girl, or big person, it doesn't matter... the first thing I think of is that is a person that doesn't take care of them self. REAL or IMAGINED. Doesn't eat right... doesn't care about how they look.
THEN when I see a TRIM/FIT guy with a BIG girl... I think "Boy he can do so much better".... and vice versa.
Look... it's FAIR. We all have opinions and ideas and IDEALS.
We have to base our opinions on SOMETHING. We can't SEE what's in a person's heart and soul... we can only see the PHYSICAL.
Some people care less about what others think... and personally I HAVE dated gals who were overweight.
I also PREFER that a gal not be REAL skinny... in fact... If I get to choose... I'd like a gal who is 10-20 pounds ABOVE what the chart says... is an ideal weight. (depending on how they carry it)...
But... really, anything over 20 pounds is just UNHEALTHY... and anything over 40 pounds is just plain GROSS.
You asked... there's my honest answer.
TOTALLY FAIR.
2006-06-19 00:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up your possibilities. This is a cultural thing. Most white's are "programmed" through advertising that the slim person is the only beautiful person. However, blacks, hispanics, and other cultures think big is beautiful. There are many doctors, lawyers, and other well educated people of various ethnic groups who love bigger women, and they are good husbands and fathers. Look around. Remember, if a person doesn't love your inner beauty, they aren't worth your time, no matter who they are.
2006-06-19 01:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by godslovelyrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what you call *big*,and 2 its realy about how a person carries themself you can either be big and beautifull or just grossely big, and thats only to do with cleanlyness,and boys usualy dont know what men do !so they most likely have no clue of what cushion is just right for the pushin,usualy if ur big ,wet or swety is not a good benifit cuz most tie the two as being unclean just cuz ur big, but that is fixable and if u love some one whether youve met them or not it is best to at least try to please the eyes and not just the inner eye but the outer eyes and even if it does seem like its just about sex try it anyways but safely, get ur swet on and work what yu got and if ur swettin with sex well say bye to the weight and if it still dont work then you must not be workin it right you gotta do some thing other than lay there and even then you gota be freaky with what you do ,also alot of guys like me like to savour every part of their girl so if you like got hidding places big well it gets scarey not knowing whats like in there so if you can, have some mercey on ur self and the guys and do what you can and 20 to 40 lbs?thats just like anerexic so i dont understand why anyone wants to rubb twigs over their head, not me 120 to 190 is average depending on heights of 5'8" areas
2006-06-19 02:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by freikeygee@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do it just depends on the person.
You can be drop dead gorguis an dbe able to hold any thing other then a plate. and some one will want you.
Just stop lookiing and some one will find you. Besides who cares what you look like.
2006-06-19 00:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Chad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason women don't want to date a big man
2006-06-19 00:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by jlimages 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big is not beautiful BUT if you find a connection with someone, then if he loves you he will encourage you to slim down. That's what i would do if i had a big girl
2006-06-19 01:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not true lots of guys love big women. you haven't tried with the right one yet. keep your eyes open and you will find one watching your every move.
2006-06-19 00:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure its just cause your big, i mean i dont know you, you could be lovely but maybe you havnt met someone yet who conects with you on a emotional and mental level this is love after all.....
these man arnt good enough for you babe, if they turn you down for your size then they arnt worth knowing!
2006-06-19 00:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost all of us guys want a girl we could take to the street and show off to our friends. we want a bouncing chic and not an overfed mother...
2006-06-19 00:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by spongebob30x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋