Why do most people think that a beautiful girl has an ugly heart?

Answer 1

If a girl has a beautiful face, they expect her behaviour to be as good as her face, which may not be true. So a pretty girl raises expectations, which is difficult to match. Since she cant manage expectations, her behaviour is not considered as beautiful.

Answer 2

It is a cliche, but also a sadness.

To teenage boys, all they often see is an ugly heart. They forget that many predatorial adults see the beauty much younger and before the boys.

They are often the ones who fill the heart with ugliness and poison, through physical abuse and other kinds of abuse. Sometimes, not always.

Dig a little deeper and often you will find a broken and sad soul crying out for someone and something to trust. Compassion can go a long way to changing the cliche.

Answer 3

Quite the contrary, most people are willing to give attractive people more credit than they will to ugly people.
This can make attractive people believe that they are entitled to special social and personal dispensations, and that can lead to them feeling thwarted from time to time when they run into people who will not grant those dispensations.
Ugly people have to learn how to be personally charming, since physicality is not going to give them the golden ticket to society.
In both cases (Beauties and Beasts), the question of "heart" should be answered on an individual basis. But, as Jesus said of the wealthy man, it is easier to pass a camel through the eye of a needle than to find a beautiful person who is "deep."
Sometimes, though, those camels go marching right through.

Answer 4

Because people slobber after beautiful girls and women. When these girls see all that slobbering and @$$ kissing, they just take advantage of it. It perhaps might be that people that only go after beauty have as ugly a heart as egocentric, mean, good looking girls.

This is not to say that the presumption in your question 100% correct. I've known and/or dated astoundingly beautiful girls with equally beautiful hearts.

Answer 5

because they always think that they are more beautiful then the others and soon become Very proud of their very actions and thought their actions and words are always rite because they are superior to the others and the people courting them are a lot and treating her like queen.While the ugly ones always got bullied by them and whenever they see someone in trouble or got criticise they will always help that poor person as they understand how they feel under the same ex per they suffer ago.

Answer 6

thats just a generalisation, but i guess its an attempt to negate the physical perfection. if she is beautiful and has a good heart, then you'd feel like god is being unfair by making her so perfect. so in our minds, if she is beautiful but has an ugly heart, then we feel like life makes sense. it helps us maintain the sense of justice in the world.

Answer 7

Because of the pride of beauty the beautiful girls generally tend to hurt others. It is also experienced that the girls not so beautiful are generally having good heart and are down to earth i.e. they do not carry any load of 'such' extra factors on their asses.

Answer 8

I dated many beautiful women and found they are the most problematic.They are selfish,materialistic ,spoiled and use their looks to get what they want.
I do know many that married "Up " only to be left by the guy they USED. They like lawyers ,doctors and professional people .
Good luck finding love with that bunch.

Answer 9

Probably those people had their hearts broken by some beautiful woman they have met in the course of their lives. :)

Answer 10

Leave her for the ugly nerd with a big heart...