well i am with this guy n its my best friends cusin n she really dnt like it but the thing is i really like him n i haven't been this happy for ages he means the world 2 me n i may even love him but everytime i ring her or go 2 see her she says shes busy or she doin somethin i can feel tht things r different n wat dnt make sence is tht she said that she wud b here 4 me but she isnt, when i told her me and her cusin was dating she just fliped at me n had a go like she want me to end it. but i am not going 2 do that cause i havent felt like this ever i mean whn i with him he makes me feel special n its just magical, i know tht he feels the same way also whn we first met there was like this spark it made me feel like i had known him for ages, i have neva felt like this about anyone before like now that i found him i dnt want 2 let him go but @ the same time i dnt want 2 lose my bestfriend but then again is she really a gd friend if she is making me chose btween the both of them? wht 2 do?
2006-06-19 00:07:07 · 9 answers · asked by kitkatblue3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she doesnt agree becos she thinks she will lose u cos u r going to give all the attention to her cousin, talk to her tell her u love them both and cant afford to lose them both and that nothing is ever going to change as bestfriends with her, hope she understands.
2006-06-19 00:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay well I'm sure she has a reason to objecting you guys going out, she's your bestfriend and would obviously want you to be happy. Maybe she knows stuff about her cousin and doesnt want you to get hurt but she doesnt want to tell you because its all family personal stuff.
I would ask her again why does she want you guys to break up? If she doesnt give a reason Im sure its because she knows this person more than you do and just doesnt want you to get hurt.
She is your friend and she is there for you but you just dont realise it because at the moment you are too involved with your new relationship.
Think about who YOU want to lose and who's worth it all? Think about it.
2006-06-19 07:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Puja N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur best friend is the one u met first
and u should share ur feeling with her first.
Tell her how much u love her cousin.and ask her why she want to stop u?If u find her reason a good answer leave him otherwise ..................
True friend always looks for ur happiness.
also discuss the issue with ur bf and listen what he says.
if possible all the three meet at once and resolve the issue
2006-06-19 07:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by good_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot have it both ways...its the cousin or the best friend..which is more important to you ??? If you can answer this then you have the answer to your question. Simple as that.
2006-06-19 07:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like best friend might like cousin as well. i'd say dump best friend and keep the cousin. talk to best friend and find out what the deal is.
2006-06-19 07:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by koifishlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uska koi bhai wai to nahin hai agar hai to bach le!!
2006-06-19 07:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by prakhar105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your pick like 1st person said
2006-06-19 07:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by nicegirl187smile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out who`s the gay you love, by asking your heart, and fight for your love
2006-06-19 07:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by buterfly_sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
junk the cousin or junk the guy, take your pick.
2006-06-19 07:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋