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Not planning to keep in touch, hence not required to discuss with the husband, right approach or wrong?

2006-06-18 22:56:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

12 answers

one it depends on your husband and his level of trust some men or women may take this as a sign that you wanted to or still may stay in touch. Then some would tell their spouse or significant other just to make them jealous which is never good. As a rule i believe in total honesty but in this case there is really nothing to be honest or dishonest about in my opinion as long as you have no intention of seeing or being in contact with an ex then no need to say anything it is the past. Some people believe you should be totally honest about past lovers or just those you dated but that is not always the best idea. I don't feel someone should even ask hey tell me about all your past loves,Why so they can then compare themselves to that person or persons and say well did you love them were they better than me how close were you and on and on. Granted everyone is not the same but too much info is not necessary Good luck I'm sure you will make the best decision only you know for sure

2006-06-18 23:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by katlady927 2 · 1 0

How ever much a man tell u that as husband he needs to know everything, there are some things a wife should always keep away. Not with any intention to hurt but to avoid any unnecessary distress and dilemma he will face. Weighing the situation is the best way to judge whether he needs to know or not. Even when they say they dont worry about the old flame because u are his today and forever, somewer deep within he will wonder wat it was like for u to be with him. he will wonder if u r trully happy as u say u r with ur hubby or was the old flame better.

men, specially who love us a lot always is survived with that pang of jealousy. Love always followed with possessiveness however broad minded and secure they are about their girlfriends or wives.

So my advice, tell the old flame to go to hell and carry on with your new life. And because of which there is no need to mention him to ur husband.

All the best to u and ur husband.

2006-06-19 00:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

forget it. that's his "previous tale", he has to administration it, and not you. would you tell all of your project once you change someone down? i'm no longer so effective about it. perchance you're dealing with this question better than he. For he this replaced right into a nil.5 an hour situation, and also you're dealing with it for weeks, or years. And the colleagues who're telling you some thing about your husband's existence in the agency are not any more very honest human beings. i'd end them to inform me about any inner most element. that's risky because would provide the potential for misconceptions.

2016-10-14 07:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

well if you're not planning to keep in touch if your old flame then let it be just that. don't need to tell ur husband. just ignore ur old flame and move on. that's life

2006-06-18 23:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't get in touch! Unless you want to risk your husband finding out and leaving you! Just don't go there it's not worth it. Good Luck.

2006-06-18 23:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by samanthaD 1 · 0 0

Bring it up casually over dinner.
Make light of it. Discuss the ex's flaws and have a good laugh.

2006-06-18 23:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0 0

old flame?

what is the reason you left him?

not a very good idea of having relationship since you already married, unless you are really cool and your hubby is allowed to contact his old flame too.

2006-06-18 23:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by luqman_hakim 3 · 0 0

If the current flame is burning u real bright, 4get the old flame.

2006-06-18 23:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by The Jungle Taipan 2 · 0 0

yeah right, u answered ur own question, u r right, there's no need to keep in touch with him.

2006-06-19 00:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0 0

yeap discussion aint necesarry as long as u dont plan to meet hima gain...but husband will get mad if u dont tell him this issue...

2006-06-18 23:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sepukku 1 · 0 0

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