we married for 28 years. 4 years back i found he hawing affair with one of the staff and she 25 years younger than him.any how i mananged to chase her from my country bcs she is forenier.after that he get another girl from same working place olso differen race.before this thing happenend to me we werw happy family with five children.
2006-06-18 21:23:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get out as fast as you can. He will have to pay child support. But he isn't faithful & why have your children grow up around a man who messes round.
Your happiness seems to NOT be important to him.
2006-06-25 21:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he shows you no sign of being sorry for what he did and is not regretful for it,then,there is no reason for you to bring him back. How can you manage being with someone you can't trust anymore? But before you decide,you both should talk things over and assess all aspects involved in your life. We may never know,this happened to make your relationship stronger.Even if they say,"Once a bad guy,always a bad guy", there are still distinctions from all the rules. If love is still present on your hearts,then,you can seek marriage counselling and just pray to God for a healthy and harmonious family. Prayer is very powerful. Good luck
2006-06-18 21:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsexything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know you were happy. He could have been cheating this whole time and you just found out. Once someone cheats on you it means they don't love you anymore or they never really did. He probably won't change. You should leave him and find yourself a real man. Easier said then done but you should leave him and take him for everything he has.
2006-06-18 22:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by lilbitch689 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the cheatin bastard,
Now you might have been happy but he obviously wasnt or he wouldn't be cheatin over and over.
And quit blaming the woman for your cheatin hubby, these woman have no commitment to you, your man did the blame is all his, yes it takes 2 however he had the commitment to you not her, lay blame where blame deserves.
Have you ask him why? Now i ask you why do you still want him? I know 28 yrs is not easy to throw away, almost married that long myself, however if it come to that to the curb he go. I dont want to live a life with someone who obviously dont want to be with me let alone love me, if he love you he wouldnt have strayed.
Be strong take him to the cleaners. :)
2006-06-18 21:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU might have thought that you were living in a 'happy' family but he obviously didn't. He has made his choice. 'Chasing' his original lover away was spectacularly stupid. If you wanted to keep him you should have kept your counsel and let it fizzle out but by driving her away you left an emotional void which he obviously sought to fill. Have some pride and get on with your life.
2006-06-19 10:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why?do you think he will change,if you were a happy family you wouldn't be going though this think long and hard before you fall but into the life you want to have.
2006-06-18 22:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by grayladygranny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to give him more love than the other girls are giving it will bring him to you.He should know that you really care for him and he cant live without you.
2006-06-18 21:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by jak4friends 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him and find a new man, one that will respect you and marriage.
2006-06-18 21:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by josh22n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and find a bf and show him what you feel and let him feel the same hurt
2006-06-18 21:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋