ofcourse its still too early for that. we're still studying in college. and most of all, the problems after people know about it. what to do?
2006-06-18 21:18:22 · 11 answers · asked by rakizta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hambal ko in due time ya..indi mga subong gid..ok?
2006-06-18 21:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by lady16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your girlfriend that it's best to wait until after college. You will be married and will both have jobs. You need money to support your marriage and your child. In order for the child to have the best life possible, you two should take care of yourselves first. Listen to your heart and do what you think is right. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. However, a child changes your life in ways that are indescribable. Don't rush into anything that you're not ready for.
Good luck! :)
2006-06-19 04:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not really that expert in this kind of situation but i think you have to say no. our future and also hers will be at risk. Think 100 times because 50-50% of early pregnancy ends up to divorce marriage and etc. Come to think of it what will happen to the fruit you will bear. Since youre in college why dont you wait, its too early for responsibility.
2006-06-19 04:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of married couples have kids in college. Will be very hard on time management as well as financing though. Wait a while after graduation is better idea.
2006-06-19 04:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Titan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no and that you're not ready...but if she's the kind that is desperate then I'd be real careful. And keep a couple of condoms away from her incase she 'accidentally' stuck a pin through one of them...it's enough to get her pregnant.
Good Luck
2006-06-19 04:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself first. Especially if it will mean that the child will come in like that's more secure.
2006-06-19 04:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT I DID IT AND IT WAS THE WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE PLEASE DONT DO IT BECAUSE THEN WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP GOES SOUTH YOU NOW HAVE A CHILD THAT WAS BROUGHT INTO THE WORLD AND YOU HAVE TO RAISE HIM OR HER AND BE THERE FOR THEM AND YOU ARE NOT READY TELL GIRLFRIEND TO CHILL IF SHE CANT HANDLE THAT THEN LEAVE HER NOW DONT GET TRAPPED ITS DEVESTATING IN THE END TRUST ME MAN>
2006-06-19 04:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you protect yourself, some chicks will go around what you want to get pregnant, dont let that happen to you
2006-06-19 04:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by roseanne g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
due to the points above.
I think you already got what you want.
no job,no money,so how to raise your kids?
don''t rush into anything that you are not ready for.
2006-06-19 04:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she asking you to do it or she wants only be pregnant?
2006-06-19 04:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋