How can I leave a bad marrige with no money, four animals and two kids?

Answer 1

with lots of help and support from family and friends.

Answer 2

A bad marriage? If you think your safety is at risk contact a women's shelter in your area they may be able to help you. Financial cohesion is a form of control and abuse.
Okay face it whether you have money or not divorce is a tough road (less so than staying in a bad situation) Divorce can make anyone broke for a while, it does pass. Right now you need to make sure you and your children are safe. Do you have family around? Have you talked with them and asked if they could help you? Pride doesn't help here, most folks have families that would pitch in and help you and the kids. Leaving is the hardest, it's scary but the other side isn't as bad as the imagination can be. Get your children and your self in a safe environment. Job training and college may be an option there are programs out there to help folks in your situation. Grants and student loans. You animals may be hard to care for unless you have family member that will take them in. I know it sounds like a lot and hard but the hardest part of it is leaving the bad marriage, and safety is important. Don't give up hope, try calling a women's shelter
there are people that care out there and will help you
wedirectyou.com/womennmr/shelters.htm
www.violetnet.org/info/shelters.htm

Answer 3

Find someone to babysit your pets for three weeks and go to the womens shelter. They are really quite nice. I have stayed in two and they are almost like a hotel. The Sheriff King Home in Calgary...wow that was nice..an emotional vacation to sort out your thoughts. Professional massages,relaxation classes, free haircuts once a week, free concert tickets, zoo tickets, buss tickets, all the free clothes you want, child care, private locked room, 24 counselling if you need to talk, come and go as you wish (cerfew at 11PM)...and the best part...you usualy can go right to the top of the subsidized housing list and get welfare without any hassel

So if he is abusive at all. (even if he doesnt hit you...emotional abuse is enough) Call and talk to someone at your local shelter or crisis line. I did and they even can send a taxi to pick you up

If your marriage is bad..and you didnt say why...check it out...maybe its the best thing

Answer 4

get a job, start making money.and get out of there,file for child support and custody of those kids. it will be hard but you have to do this for your kids and yourself. get family to help you and friends,if not go o he police and le them know that you need help maybe a shelter for now. but if you can for a month or two get a job and start to save money, whatever money he gives you save it. and ry to get an aprantment, but in the mean time while he is living with you go to get a court order for child support and custody. move ou as soon as possible after that because he may become mad and abuse you or your kids worse.good luck and take care of those kids and yourself!!!

Answer 5

Give a way the animals and take the kids to your parents then look for work.

Answer 6

Open the door, keep walking.

PS Why do you list the animals before your kids?

Answer 7

Get the book, "Divorce for Dummies" there should be resources in there for people in your financial situation. Good luck.

Answer 8

Get a job.

Answer 9

you can rely on friends,family,government programs,shelters,etc. as long as you stay you will be spinning your wheels, and prolonging your better life.

Answer 10

get a lawyer