Im white and my girlfriend of 4 years is white but I am becoming so attracted to black girls its crazy. They have such nice bodies and are so good in bed. I feel guilty because I cheated on my gf 3 times all with black girls. She found out recently about one and she's devestated but i dont want to lose her.
2006-06-18 19:40:58 · 35 answers · asked by ray c 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Ummm...break up with your girlfriend, and date a black girl instead, maybe? You are obviously too selfish to be in a real relationship right now, and it's not fair to your girlfriend. Break up, or grow up. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
2006-06-18 19:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look man, you need to come out and tell her the truth even if it means losing her. That is just the consequence you deserve from your bad behavior. Accept that you did wrong and deal with the effects. If you really like/love her, then you shouldn't have done it, and her leaving you shouldn't be that bad. Afterward, you can go with the black ladies all you want and get that out of your system. Or you can make a promise to yourself and her that you will be loyal and not cheat and see if she forgives you. But first of all, be honest. 3 times is 3 too many, and if you've already done it taht many, you will probably do it again.
2006-06-18 19:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by bobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have not heard what you are doing is not a good thing. I mean have you not read the newspapers lately. It seems there is this weird disease going around the United States that came from Southern France. If a white man with a white girlfriend sleeps with another woman of a different race he will contract this disease albeit not a deadly one it simple makes your penis shrink till it is the same as your IQ.
2006-06-18 19:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by windyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, tough situation!! I think you need to be honest with your gf and tell her you have this attraction and its very strong. If she can't accept that, and I doubt she will, then you are going to lose her. I doubt she wants an open realtionship. You'll just have to talk about it with her and see what happens. If you felt really bad you wouldn't have cheated in the 1st place so maybe you don't feel as strongly about her as you may think. Ask yourself some questions..How much do I really care about her? What do I benefit from this realtionship, etc?? Good luck.
2006-06-18 19:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by mccamel1666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me break this down for you. You are being selfish and self centered. Your g/f deserves better than what you can give her. Be a man and break up with her if you want to be with "black girls". You can't have your cake and eat it too...
PS if one of your "black girls" finds out that you are playing them you better have puncture proof tires because we don't play!
2006-06-18 19:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by amsmitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend will be devastated who ever you cheat with. Race doesn't play any role in this, if a fine any race girl layed in front of you; you would cheat , cause your a cheater let your girl go so she won't be getting your crappy left overs
2006-06-18 19:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by zorahudson@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really messed up.You are attracted to black women for one reason-lust.
If I we're you I would get a real grip on what you are doing to you and other's.
One day this life is going to crush you.
Stay with one girl and nobody gets hurt.
Imagine if she did that to you.
Now that would suck.
You would feel hurt and crushed.
Don't crack another heart.
2006-06-18 19:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by big_canadian_weiner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk you are...
You know you did wrong and you have the nerve to ask us what you should do???
Spare her heart any more breakage and get away from her...
You have no control...
I like what Heather said...
Keep it in your pants...
You don't deserve your girlfriend...
What if you found out she was cheating on you???
I hope you get hurt the same way you hurt her...
2006-06-18 19:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by aspenkdp2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want to lose your girlfriend you wouldn't cheat on her with anybody. It doesn't matter that you've cheated on her with black girls, all that matters is that you've cheated.
If you can't keep your dick in your pants, you don't deserve your girlfriend.
2006-06-18 19:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by heather47374 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a dumbass. If you can't help youself then clearly you should be single and spare your gf of your uncontrolled urges.
get yourself a black gf if you seem to want them so much. Or just be single if all you can help doing is messing around.
THAT's what you should do.
2006-06-18 19:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by chigaimasu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋