Im white and my girlfriend of 4 years is white but I am becoming so attracted to black girls its crazy. They have such nice bodies and are so good in bed. I feel guilty because I cheated on my gf 3 times all with black girls. She found out recently about one and she's devestated but i dont want to lose her.
2006-06-18 19:40:21 · 22 answers · asked by ray c 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Tell her the truth and break up with her... What the dam point of being with her...
2006-06-18 19:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by a100 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Look man, you need to come out and tell her the truth even if it means losing her. That is just the consequence you deserve from your bad behavior. Accept that you did wrong and deal with the effects. If you really like/love her, then you shouldn't have done it, and her leaving you shouldn't be that bad. Afterward, you can go with the black ladies all you want and get that out of your system. Or you can make a promise to yourself and her that you will be loyal and not cheat and see if she forgives you. But first of all, be honest. 3 times is 3 too many, and if you've already done it taht many, you will probably do it again.
2016-05-20 01:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just can't have it all. You SHOULD let your girlfriend go. Or else, if you really love her, and IF she still wants to stay with you (after you've told her of ALL three girls, not just the one she caught you with), then make a commitment NEVER to cheat on her again. But you've got to be honest. If not for her, at the very least, for your own sake: You don't want your gf to discover after a while about the other two, do you? And believe me she will.
By the way, I do not think you'd want to cheat on your gf, if you really loved her. I think it's more a possessive thing, or something of the sort than real love.
2006-06-18 19:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you cheating period, that is the question, obviously your not satisfied with what you have and are willing to lose your relationship with her after the 3 times already. Sounds like your not ready for a COMMITTED relationship, and your being Very Selfish and Greedy, I bet if you found out she was cheating with a Black guy it wouldn't feel very good, think about her feelings as well, remember what comes around goes around eventually. "Just be single and date whoever, whenever you want and until you yourself know you can "COMMIT to a Real Relationship, without extra "BOOTY, no matter what race it is...
2006-06-18 19:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Marixza M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you don't deserve her!!!!!!!!!
she shouldn't have to put up with ure crap
no girl should
if your really attracted to other woman doesn't matter what colour they are and your acting on your feelings then end your relationship why are you even in one it sounds as though you have no respect for woman if u treat them like this theres more to life than looks and a good root think about this when your old and grey are you still going to be looking for a "good root" and someone with really good looks or are you going to want a life partner someone you can share everything with seriously if you want to be a very lonely old man then keep going down the path you taking now but if you want all the fine thing life has to offer then i suggest you change your ways and have some respect not just for woman but for everyone and most importantly yourself
2006-06-18 20:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by chanster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up, man! Things are only worse if you aren't honest. Talk to her and find out her point of view. If you don't want to lose her, then you should have been honest before you acted. It may have cause an argument then, but I'm certain it wouldn't have hurt her as much as this will now. But always honesty is best. If she found out about one, there is always the possibility that she'll find out about the others... Much better from your lips than from someone else's.
2006-06-18 19:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Risa 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid u HAVE to lose her. She deserves better than u..'m not reprimanding u, cause u sound like u need help. I mean, cant u just control urself? don u have any will power? everyone is faced with temptations but they manage to restrain themselves,can't u do the same? Imagine ur gf slithering over white men all the time...enjoying herself more than she does with u, and reaching orgasms that u could never give her, how do u think u would feel????? Let her go and find a normal guy and be happy. And what on earth does sexual satisfaction have to do with skin color? crap.. I wish well for ur gf.. sorry man but u came around quite disgusting and stupid..
2006-06-18 19:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
You have to fess up. What you're doing isn't good for your relationship, and you know it. Of course your girlfriend is going to be hurt, but if she already has some idea then you have to let her know. She deserves to know. You not wanting to lose her is just being selfish -- you know that if you don't tell her your relationship will never be the same anyways. Might as well just tell her.
2006-06-18 19:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by 27ridgeline 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on too, and I can imagine the pain your girlfriend is going through. If you don't want to lose her, you wouldn't do something that terrible to her. f you do lose her, you can only blame yourself. If you want her in your life, smarten the hell up. What you did was selfish and cruel. Grow up.
2006-06-18 20:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then stop cheating on her if black girls are so good in bed why dont u help her get good...dont just cheat on her teach each other...or if u wana stop hurting her break up with her and go your own way...just remember is it worth losing her ova some one else
2006-06-18 19:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well then dont cheat on her i would be sooo angry if my bf cheated on me but if if you are so attracted to black girls then maybe you should tell your gf if you guys can put things on hold for a while your feeling really stressed out or its not going to be easy but you can tell her what you really feel
2006-06-18 19:46:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋