2006-06-18 19:28:46 · 20 answers · asked by canada2006 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm just asking ,not really for me,thank you for all your nice answer and care ,I never thought that this many people care about someone else.
2006-06-18 19:46:15 · update #1
I would go out and get tested for aids and not have sex with my spouse. If it came back negative I'd say "Honey...I had to take a Aids test before I got my insurance. It came back positive. The question dear is why?" then let them argue or see what transpires in the next hour. have the divorce papers ready.
because why would you want to live with someone playing Russian roulette with your life and your heart.
don't let them sweat too long. One or both may kill their self or each other in grief or anger. Better to remember it all as a last laugh on your spouse and lover.
2006-06-19 02:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
1 slice of bread out of the whole loaf ain't so bad... is it worth distroying a marrigae over?
Whats good for the gander is NOT good for the goose...
Wonder why I automatically think the spouse in question is a male?
Revenge no matter which spouse it is, will distroy anything that may be left of the marriage...
You're hurt, feel betrayed, and there is no more trust... but all these things can be worked out. If you want to work it out...
gl
2006-06-18 19:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the natural first response, but will get you nowhere. You will have much more respect for yourself if you deal with your pain in a more positive way- like being kind to yourself and figuring out if this is a marriage you deserve to stay in. Talk to people who love you and care about you as a person. I am so sorry this happened to you. I wish the best for you.
2006-06-18 19:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they say that the person in control is the one that keeps their "cool"--it's the truth!
Do not allow anyone else's bad judgement to "make" you do something you cannot take back or change once it has happened.
Surround yourself with your own fan club and group of friends, vent your hurt with them, your anger, whatever it takes to get the steam out of your system--but don't DO anything in retaliation!
This is YOUR chance to be THE BIGGER PERSON and you can prove it to them and to YOURSELF.
After all, you will have to live with you after
you are no longer seething about it.
And the day will come when you will see things
very differently, and you will heal if you ALLOW yourself to move on.
Been there, done that...I can send you MY tee-shirt!
Good Luck!
2006-06-18 19:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never ever make revenge. One mistake cannot be straightened by another mistake. But.... I'm gonna leave him. If he did it for the first time and ask for my forgiveness, I might probably give him another chance only after some proofs and make him promise NOT to ever do it again. But if he did it for the second time,,, well,,, things is over. There's a saying goes... "Fooled me once, shame on you.... BUT fooled me twice, shame on me"
2006-06-18 20:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by sweethonesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. I'd ask them if they were happy being with me and, if not, I'd set them free. I don't think that marriage is a natural state (although I still believe in it, because it is a place of learning). Your body, your heart and your thoughts are your own. You should only be in a marriage if you have good reason or want to be there.
2006-06-18 19:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Empea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH HELL YEAH! I have done it once before with my ex boyfriend I walked in on him and my so called best friend. When I finished with my ex he couldn't walk for a week. Well what person can when their whole legs are black and blue. The only thing that I regret I stuffed my Brothers band new softball bat.
2006-06-19 01:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by jd_knny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I would never want to do this because 2 wrongs do not make a right and also we are not held accountable for what happens to us but we are held accountable for our actions or reactions and how we choose to respond.
2006-06-19 00:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Yes, if you married with or without kids, I would get revenge straight from his pockets via "Court Ordered"
Long term relationship, move on he's not worth it, life is to short, and as my saying goes, "Next Booty on Duty, Next *** that Pass" LOL, I hope that cheered you up or at least made you laugh :)
2006-06-18 19:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Marixza M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, just say its over and act like it diodnt bother me......That would hurt here worse than physical revenge.
2006-06-18 19:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋