2006-06-18 19:21:03 · 9 answers · asked by Marryornot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have never been in a relationship before. So, I don't know what it is like to be with women, intellectually, emotionally or physically ( I am male and heterosexual). It is normal for people to get married without ever having been in relationship in the society that I come from. I think 28 is a good age to think about marriage for physiological and biological reasons. How do I decide?
2006-06-18 19:26:20 · update #1
have never been in a relationship before. So, I don't know what it is like to be with women, intellectually, emotionally or physically ( I am male and heterosexual). It is normal for people to get married without ever having been in relationship in the society that I come from. I think 28 is a good age to think about marriage for physiological and biological reasons.
I fear living a lonely life.
How do I decide?
2006-06-18 20:49:37 · update #2
You can weigh the pro's and con's of marriage and decide if it's for you. As long as you find the right person marriage can be a wonderful thing. But as wonderful as it is, it's also hard and there are rough patches where you are going to need to be understanding and compassionate - and have tons of patience and love for your spouse.
2006-06-18 19:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter, its what is in your heart that does. You have to find that person that makes you feel you can not live another day with out them. My ex-husand had never been in a serious relationship before me and it was sometimes difficult for him. He had no experience with other women and was a momma's boy until I broke him of that. We both wanted to get married, but we were not in love. It lasted 2 1/2 years and we are still friends, but getting married for the sake of not being alone is not the best way to go about things.
2006-06-19 02:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by southrntrnzplnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should u not love that someone first? Marraige could be hell if you are not happy with the other partner. Is a life of living hell worth being single, alone (but could make happy anytime u want) better? My take on it is I prefer to be single till I found "the one". Better to be happy single then unhappy married.
2006-06-19 09:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone to get to know and to date. Take things slow and dont let your hormones rule your decision. If they are the right one and you feel they are the one you want to marry and settle down with and you are ready for the comittment for a life time then by all means marry. Just make sure it is right!
2006-06-19 07:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a big responsibility and marriage vows are very special.to get married you need open communication between you and your spouse.always remember the main ingredients of love is trust ,honesty, and commitment.If you feel that you are ready and they are ready to make this commitment then good luck.Plus life is short and everyone deserves to spend their last seconds with their true love.The joker.
2006-06-19 02:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try knowing more about the person you're trying to marry. If that doesn't work, try someone else.
2006-06-19 02:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better stay single for awhile and check it out and get to know him better lots of luck your gonna need it.
2006-06-25 18:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by MARK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that both of you have the same goals in life. where do you both want to be in 20 years. if she really wants to be your wife, she needs to sign a pre-nup.
2006-06-19 02:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by mike t b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get 2 know first .. u can know ur insthings...
2006-06-19 02:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋