I wanna get some guys to notice me what do I do?

Question

I have an acne problem and im trying everything to get them to notice me. How do I look pretty and not annoy them without makeup like blush,lip stuff,eyeshadow etc.

The guys at my school are really mean. They make fun of the way I talk,look,and they say im stupid just because I got some F's. I have never in my life met a guy that doesn't make fun of me.

Answer 1

Just be yourself, the RIGHT guys will notice you.

But if you really want ANY guy to notice you, walk around naked.

Answer 2

hey girl look, i also have a acne problem. I put on only a little makeup. Guys are guys, they will always make fun, annoy you and what have you. But its you personality, your self-confidence that will get guys to shut up and respect you and soon start noticing you. Don't react as they want you to when they insult you, ignore them and go on as if they don't even exist and smile. That way they will realize you couldn't care less and eventually stop. But the thing is not to be cruel but to be still social with them.
With you acne problem, use lemons. i have been using it and in less the a week, the results were, disappearing acne, smooth skin, and a leveled tone. Just work (not vigorously) a lemon over your skin.

Answer 3

hey i have acne problems too! just get some sort of something that works to clear up your skin if that bothers you. as far as makeup goes i asume you don't know much about it because of the way you asked this question. go to a drugstore or like sephora and get maybe a powder oh what in the world is that powder stuff called- here i have if i'll go look...okay i.d. bare minerals...its good stuff and it can cover up your zits until they go away! yay! okay eyeshadow just wear something really light and maybe like a brown eyeliner thats soft and not harsh looking (hense the word soft) wear lipgloss but if you want like a color...idk if they still sell them but remember those yves saint lauren (uhh sp?!) lip pens. they are like markers for your lips and add a subtle color and then you put a little gloss over it and *tada!* (wow i feel like a makeup expert!) and blush just find a good color for you and aply all that stuff lightly! and be confident in how you look! ;-)

Answer 4

OMG!! You have got to try a new regimen that was created by a man who had acne. My boyfriend had it really bad until I bought this for him. Its clearing up now and loks better everyday.

www.acne.org

As far as not annoying a boy... I have no idea what to tell you except - think about what you are doing and saying before you do and say it. Never, EVER, EVER ask a boy out. Lastly, learn to like you and how you were made.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

This may sound old but it's your personality in the end that wins out. You don't need a lot of makeup or any makeup if that's not who you are. Guys that are worthy of gaining attention wouldn't require that you become something you're not. Give it some time, when you least expect it the unexpected happens. Good luck and keep us posted.

Answer 6

in truth it sounds to me like your after the kind of guy who is just going to have you back on yahoo asking why guys are such jerks. I think you need to open your eyes and take a look at the guys who do notice you.

I liked this girl in highschool. she was in a few of my classes and she was always so nice to everyone. a very pretty girl. she liked some other guy. but here never paid her any attention. I did everything that I could to get her to realize that I was right there doing nice things for her and telling her that I thought she was pretty, and all she could do was complain that she wasnt pretty enough for some jock senior who could have any girl he wanted.
eventually I got tired of trying and found a nice girl that liked me and dated her for the rest of the time I was in school. after we had been out of school and I came back from bootcamp looking sexy as I am today, she decided that she wanted to get my attention. I told her that back when we were in school I would have done anything for her but she ignored me and I proved to her how shallow she was actually being, by always chasing that even more shallow guy.

Answer 7

Ask your mom or dad to take you to a dermotologist to evaluate your skin. You want to prevent as much as possible so you don't have scars. Stick with the regimen. If the F's bother you, ask about tutoring. Get extra help from your teachers. F's don't mean you're stupid, but they could mean you don't care. A bad attitude is not very attractive. Most importantly - you don't need some guy to notice you for your to feel good about yourself. Work on yourself FOR yourself, people will notice! :)

Answer 8

First, whatever stress you have let it go or don't worry about it for the time being. Also use Olay Daily facials self-foaming discs and Clarity (from Olay) toner everyday and night, also use a lightweight moisturizer. Hopefully that'll work. Oh yeah, and act like you're not paying attention. That'll get them too (sometimes). But watch out for what kind of guy he is, whomever he may be.

Answer 9

Before I start yappin, I'm telling you feel free to email me or whatever about the acne crud or just life in general. I know what it's like.

Second, I'm going to suggest you cut out all dairy from your diet if possible. See if in a couple of months, that helps your acne problem. That's all it was/is for me now. It sucks, but I'd rather cut out dairy, than have the cystic acne.

Let me tell you, I know what you mean. I had severe acne from 11 all the way through high school. Freaking HALF of my CHILDHOOD!! It was pure hell. Childhood is hell. The teachers were even mean to me!!!

The only thing that I don't understand is what it's like to have this problem and be a girl - coz I'm a guy.

It depends how bad your acne is.. but either way, it's still a horrible thing. It's worse than being fat. Fat people have more friends than us ones with acne.

I know it's hard to accept this, but in my opinion... don't try to look pretty. Be who you are. F everybody else. Really, there has to be one or two people in that school that are similar to you - meaning they are already grown up and accept people for who they are.

The best day of my life was graduation day. No more being forced to go to a place every day where I was ridiculed, teased, tormented.

As soon as you get out of school., you are in the working world. You get to choose how you spend your days, who you get to see, who is your friend and who is not. It's soooo much different. I'm not saying drop out.. I'm saying realize that this is just an inbetween stage - and that it is probably the most difficult time in your life. Know that when you get through it all, that you've accomplished probably the biggest obstacle in your life.

I'm 32 now. Life is so nice to me. I've a nice house, good job and great co-workers and a wonderful wife and pet dog. I couldn't ask for much better.

WHO LIKES YOU?: With the acne problem, it was so horrible that I just assumed everybody hated me. But now that I look back, there were quite a few girls that would have given me the time of day. I wasn't very outgoing. I would actually hide most of the time.. even during lunch, i'd skip lunch.. go to the band room and get my sax out to play. There was a girl that said hi to me almost every day and I just assumed she was being nice and that there was no way in heck she would have gone out with me - she was the head of the cheerleading team and absolutely gorgeous. Now I look back... and think.. you know what., it could have been a great relationship and I think she did like me.. she was just too afraid to say anything just like me!

Open up your eyes and heart. It's possible a guy does like you.. and he's right next to you and you don't even realize it.

I suggest that you don't try to get "them" guys to notice you. Let A single guy or a couple guys see you and notice you. It's not important to be accepted by all guys or even half a dozen. Let a guy friend in to your life like you would a girl friend.. before you know it you'll be holding hands and cuddling in front a good movie.

And be open with him about how you feel with your acne. It will feel great to talk to somebody about it - especially somebody you care about and vice versa.

If none at school... go volunteer at an animal shelter or somewhere that some people are in to things you are in to. Places where people care about others is where you will find people that can care about you. School is the last place on earth you will find this! LOL. Seriously.

Answer 10

when i was in junior high, guys used to make fun of me too. when i started getting breasts, they stopped making fun of me. any way, stop worrying what those guys think. when you start showing them that they do not matter, they will start leaving you alone. also, start taking better care of yourself. start a skin regimen and get a good hair style that you can manage yourself. if your hair dresser gives you a cut you like, ask how to maintain it. you can look good w/o makeup. but at least try using mascara and a subtle lip gloss first.

Answer 11

It sounds like you don't even like these guys. So why the devil would you want them to notice you? Why do you care?

If you still want them to notice you... then the next time they make funof you, then remove a really big knife out of your bag. You'll probably get arrested and then they won't be able not to notice you.

But don't get too carried away and start cutting up people.