well they cheated on me but i feel ineptful and i think the only way that i will feel n e better is by cheating and telling him i cheated on him.
2006-06-18 18:12:13 · 10 answers · asked by Adrian G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really want this relationship to work, don't do it. You'll just end up making the trust between the two of you even worse. If you forgive him, you forgive him. It sounds to me, like you need to tell him you want to see other people, because you are not sure he's the one anymore. Tell him you cant trust him, and until that trust is rebuilt, you feel you should date around. good luck.
2006-06-18 18:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would not be wrong and he would certainly deserve it. But YOU have the upper hand now because he's done something REALLY bad and really scummy. If you do the same thing, then you're just as bad. That means he won't have to be treat you like gold or kiss your as$ like he SHOULD BE NOW. My advice is don't sink to that skanky level by cheating. Find another way to feel better. You should feel great knowing you aren't a skank. You are not inept. YOU are strong, HE is weak. Perhaps you shuld dump him and go find a strong man. These boys get you nowhere.
2006-06-18 18:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never right and neither is revenge. People who deserve to be punished eventually will. If you do decide to cheat never ever tell because the results will probably be painful for both of you. Also, when you are with your next partner he/she may not trust you and if you lie about it than you are being dishonest and that could come back to haunt you.
2006-06-18 18:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Playmate3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs don't make a right. If he's cheating...get out of that relationship. Obviously he doesn't care about you enough to be faithful. Cheating on him will only make you the same kind of low down dirty dog.
2006-06-18 18:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheated on you then you need to move on. Don't bother wasting your time trying to "get even". What goes around comes around and he'll get what he deserves eventually. Concentrate on yourself and try to stay positive. Not all guys are the same.
2006-06-18 19:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannette S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. Be the better person and just count it as experince,then walk away!
2006-06-18 18:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone cheated on u, why would u still be w/ him? have some self-respect! forget him and move on!
2006-06-18 18:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by koby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you 14? two wrongs do not make a right.
2006-06-18 18:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by monday's child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if i were u i would have broken up with him/her
2006-06-18 18:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by purple24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no no non onnononononononononono and no
2006-06-18 21:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋