Is talk about sex over the internet is a form of cheating?

Question

My husband stays on the computer talking to women about sex. Having sex with them, telling them he wants to masterbate to their pics, telling them their cute and sexy? I'm really starting to hate it. He pays more attention to the computer them me. Do I have the right to be angry?

and for that dumb ***** dawwgieshit. You are trillflin *** *****! All you think about is yourself. I don't talk to men on the computer about sex you ******! I don't even think I like men anymore because of my husband. I lost faith in then long ago......

Answer 1

YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY. IT IS ABSOLUTELY CHEATING. IF HE'LL DO IT ON THE COMPUTER, THEN HE WILL DO IT IN REAL LIFE. BEEN THERE, DONE THAT. EXPLAIN YOUR POSITION VERY THOROUGHLY, AND IF HE CONTINUES TO DO IT, THEN LEAVE, BECAUSE THE NEXT STEP IS CHEATING WITH YOUR NEIGHBOR, BEST FRIEND, SOME PROSTITUTE ON THE STREETCORNER. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LEAVE, THEN WAIT AROUND AND SEE. I ONLY HOPE THAT ITS NOT TOO LATE AND YOU END UP WITH AIDS OR SOME OTHER STD, OR END UP WITH KIDS AND HE TAKES OFF FOR THE TWENTY-SOMETHING DOWN THE BLOCK. ANOTHER THING THAT YOU CAN DO IS TELL ALL OF THESE INTERNET FLOOZIES THAT HE IS A MARRIED MAN, AND YOU WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF THEY WOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE. A LITTLE POLITENESS CAN GO A LONG WAY, AND IT WILL ALSO DEPLETE HIS LITTLE STABLE. GOOD LUCK, LADY.

Answer 2

If you are just getting unbiased advice no. If you are getting your rocks off yes.

OMG! I just read the rest of your message. Your husband is acting like a pig! You have every right to be jealous. He is becoming an addict. Pretty soon he will be looking to make those fantasies reality if he already hasn't. Today the cpu tomorrow the girl next door! This can become a real problem. He probably doesn't even know what he is doing is not only unhealthy for your relationship but it is also unhealthy for him. Seek counseling right away before this thing escalates out of control.

Answer 3

Darn rights you should be angry! But the key is to tell him in a nice way so he understnads what it is doing to you. Tell him this kind of action makes you feel insecure and unloved. Tell him when you feel this way it amkes you not want to have sex with him. Tell him if he learns to turn off the computer and come to bed then all those things he chats about with other girls could be a reality with you.

But if the problem is not that he is undersexed with you, and that he simply wants variety in his sex life, you may need to go to some kind of couples counselling if he doesn't realize the harm this can do to your relationship over the long term.

Good luck,

m

Answer 4

In my opinion internet and phone sex is a form of cheating and you have every right to be pissed as hell. If you were dating casually with no committment then it is a whole other deal, but since you are married, it is not acceptable for him to be endulging in these behaviors. If you have an open marriage and you are both cool with going out with other people then that is another thing. . . but that does not sound like what you agreed to when you got married. I think you should talk to a marriage counselor tomorrow. If he does not stop doing this - considering how much it hurts you - then you are headed for a divorce.

Answer 5

YES!!HE IS CHEATING ON YOU!!!You need to wake up.Talk to him.If he chooses the computer over you, let him have it.You are a woman with needs and theres no reason he should be online talking sex with strangers when he could be in the bedroom with his wife having real sex.What is wrong with this moron???I had the same problem where my hubby and I seperated for a yr...til he grew up.Now he would nt think of chatting with anyone.Our relationship is tronger and we have grown .I wouldnt be second to anyone....especially NOT a computer.Some men are sooooo stupid!!!Good luck sweeti!!

Answer 6

Yes it is a form of cheating and adultery. He is being very unfaithful to you by doing this. Tell him this is really hurting you and that if this continues that you want out of the marriage if he cannot stay true to you and this marriage. Yes you do have the right to be upset by this. I know that i would be if my husband was doing this to me and my marriage and if he did not or would not stop and work on the marriage with me i would leave.

Answer 7

I hate the way people use the word "cheat" like is it cheating if I
do oral or if I just kiss this person. people have forgotten what its
all about. anything that hurts you spouse is wrong to do. when two people commit to one another they are saying they will only
give their love to that one person. That is why we get married
people who want more then one partner just want their cake and eat it too. anyone can find several people to have sex with but
real love is giving all others up and committing to that one person
if you are having trouble in your relationship then he should seek help not porn. yes you have a right to feel angry

Answer 8

Yes, He is. It's only okay to cheat if you're a woman. Then you can emotionally cheat until you physically cheat and just say it's the guys fault.

Answer 9

now that u got ur answer from all these women u can go right ahead and be mad. u probably dont have all the information correct and u probably didnt tell these people u send the same amount of time in cyber space as he does... if not more. so what are u talkin about to people on the net ... who are u talkin to... dont throw stones when u live in a glass house

Answer 10

Are you crazy??? Of course he's cheating on you. You have every right to be angry with him. I might add if you did that too see how he'd react. You shouldn't take that from him.