Should i return the favor to my boyfriend?

Question

My boyfriend told me that he was going to eat me out, so I basically want to know should I return the favor to him. I never ever gave head before and I dont know how to do it. Also to the guys if you gave your girl head but she didnt give you any would you be mad about that?

Answer 1

Although he may be hoping for it, you shouldn't do it if you don't really want to do it.
If you feel you have been forced, you won't be feeling good and won't enjoy it.
I never force any one to do it and don't expect it, even I do it for the woman. If I get it, nice. If not, no problem.
As they always say, everything is allowed that BOTH parties enjoy...

Answer 2

Well I have got eaten out before and didnt give head in return never have. If u dont want to give head and wanna get ate out let him eat u out . But if u told him if he do u u will do him thats a different story u gotta do what u said u would do. Thats only right.

Answer 3

Well, I think you should tell him you'd like to return the favour but you are nervous because you've never done it before and feel very self-concious. Honesty is always the best policy.

Obviously being a guy he will want it in return, but he should be more understanding and help you understand how and what he wants from this act. Communication is the key to good sex.

Good luck,

m

Answer 4

I knew what your question was before I even read it. NO - don't give head unless you want to and you're ok with that. You are not obligated to do it even if he does that to you. Most women say it is DISGUSTING and they felt awful doing it. If you choose to do it, get a puke bucket ready. NEVER let a guy explode the load into your mouth. Sausages can be bitten off when the rules are broken.

Answer 5

Good sex is about mutual gratification, not returning favors. In your question, you seem to imply that because he promises to "eat you out," that he knows how to gratify you with oral sex. Don't make that mistake. First, I believe you have to decide if you enjoy cunnilingus. All women don't, by the way! Secondly, you have to decide if your boyfriend can perform this act senstively. Finally, you need to know if he expects you to gratify him with fellatio.
I'm personally amazed at how many people "do" sex, but can't discuss it honestly and forthrightly with each other. I subscribe to the notion that clear and honest talk before you play helps to keep sexual frustration away.
Hope this helps.

Answer 6

No because if that is what he want then let him, on the other hand if you feel comfortable about giving him head do the 69. I really don't know because I have never done it and we have been together for 8 years.

Answer 7

Of course you should return the favor. Even if you never done it, you need to at least try. He will understand if you've never done it. But if ur not even willing to try, he will not be happy. Nobody does it great the first time. But practice makes perfect.

Answer 8

the whole reason he wants to do it is because he is doing it as a means for you to do it to him...every girl had a first time.. some naturally like it.. others don't thae same goes for guys.. timps on how to improve your game watch a porn and 'study how the actress does her thing....

just hope i'm not giving advice like this to a 16 year old.

Answer 9

Sex is not a tit for tat proposition. You engage in sex because you want to express your love to someone, and delight in giving him or her pleasure.

Bottom line: You should NEVER feel like you have to return a sexual favor. (If I do this to you, you have to do that to me.) That's plain childish!

Answer 10

i think it is always nice to give and recieve.but there is sometimes you should just recieve. what u should do about not knowing how to give head go get a porn and it might help.it being your first time if your not that got he should understand.