I fell in love with a UK man when I was studying in London. When I came back to my country, he told me he has remarried for 5 years with a 4- year- old son. We can only meet online, but I love him, he says he loves me, too. He said he has no physical contact with his wife now, but his son needs mum. What shall I do?
2006-06-18 17:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by lostwoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's the oldest line in the book. No physical contact with his wife. . .his son needs his mum. . .PUHLEEEEEZE!
Dump the guy and move on. You're in a no-win situation.
2006-06-18 18:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are confused about what you should do. Think about yourself too. At this time , you must find other guy which can love you too without any kids between both of you. Love is everywhere, try to find it not with the married man!!
2006-06-18 18:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose his e-mail, fall in love with somebody else. He probably hasn't had no physical contact with his wife now, but last night he did and tomorrow he will.
2006-06-18 18:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut all contact by deleting his e mail address and telephone numbers. Be STRONGand soon you will meet someone who deserves your love
2006-06-18 22:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Netty13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey come on try to have internet love with him continue it till you can in the meantime look out for some nice smart understanding man in real and be with him forever.
2006-06-18 18:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by samuel_jones88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you really have a solution to your problem maybe if he left the chic he was with 4 you but other than that your screwed
2006-06-18 18:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, DUMP HIM!! He should have been honest with you from the start... He is a desrespectful jerk...
Find someone with enough balls to tell you the truth and respect you enough to be TOTALLY honest...
2006-06-18 20:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you be with him? Apparently, you can't really be with him... because of the choice he's made. How could you leave him? You could leave him by realizing that YOU HAVE NEEDS that aren't really being supplied by him.
2006-06-18 18:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever belive someone when they say they are only in the marriage for the kids, thats bull. its just a way for him to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-06-18 18:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to forget him. You're an ocean away and you don't know what he said is true or not. You have to think for yourself. All you need is time......^_^
2006-06-18 19:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by ☆Judy★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋