I have been with him for 2 months now. we have had a good relationship in person but just on the phone sometimes he doesnt talk. i don`t have a cell phone right now. so he can`t find me. buh like can`t he atleast call leave a message on the house phone. mayb he is shy yeah. buh jus breathe sound like you so i kan tell its him. i mean i like him. but theres like another guys who want me but ughh its jus so confusing........he makes me feel great when i am with him. but then he doesn`t call me i kno its hard no cell phone bout THERES A DAMN HOUSE FONE!!!!!! LEAVE A MESSAGE!!!!!! CALL MY FRIENDS!!! TELL THEM YOU WANT TO TALK TO ME!!! OR SOEMTHING!!! DON`T BE AFRAiD S***!!
2006-06-18 17:38:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Believe it or not there was a time when cell phones did not exist. GASP!!! I know,,, Hard to believe, but it's true!!
My relationship with my husband was the other way around. When we were going out he'd call me 10 times a day, and I found myself avoiding the phone because we just saw each other 1 hour ago. What could there possibly be to talk about? I'm a firm believer that the telephone is a mode of communication NOT a form of entertainment.
Eventually he understood that it wasn't that I didn't love him, or that I didn't want to talk - if he really needed to talk (We once had a 5 hour conversation on the phone - and it was a good conversation not a "We need to talk" conversation.)
We've been together now for 16 years - I still hate the phone. My cell phone plan is for 600 min/month and I use 200 - if that many... My husband's plan is for 1000 min/month and sometimes he goes over.
What do you want out of this relationship is what you should be asking yourself and base your decision on that.
2006-06-18 17:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by crisagi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 2 month relationship doesn't constitute a real relationship for one thing. You are expecting WAY too much from this guy. You can have every cell phone, home phone, pager, answering machine on earth, but nobody is gonna call unless they want to talk to you.
Take a deep breath here! Let up on the possessiveness! If he likes you then he will beat your door down, and call you.
Your expectations are way too high for this guy! And what you are doing is pressuring him.
2006-06-18 18:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur the type that likes a dominate man, then yeah you should dump him, because what's the point of having some one who's too lazy to call your house phone? If he really liked you then he should be calling you whatever way he can.
2006-06-18 17:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by little_chick29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, high school... Why not talk to him about this. So he doesn't like talking on the phone. Not everyone has a cell phone permantely attached to their ear, hun. Oh and here's an idea, if you wanna talk how about you call him! : O! Shocking!
2006-06-18 17:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamer7787 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should break up with him, but maybe you should talk to him about it first. Ask him why he doesnt call you and if you feel that its a bunch of bullshit then break up with him and dont waste your time. If you like this other guy go for him. Follow your heart.
2006-06-18 17:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by xxluckyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that. Not us. If he is shy, you should understand that he may not wanna talk to you all the time. You put yourself in the situation!
2006-06-18 17:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont be pregnant having intercourse purely after the seven day smash won't get you pregnant as long as you at the instant are not lacking the pill. dont be annoying, it sort of feels to me you're doing each thing suitable!
2016-12-08 22:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a little phone shy...or maybe he thinks your like me and dont want to be tracked down by him calling your friends, family and stuff.
2006-06-18 17:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by mindlessgenius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you counting down, your desperate. I say you dump him and take time for yourself. Enjoy being single.
2006-06-18 17:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by fouramepiphany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK YOU SOUND KINDA NEEDY. YOU GOT THE GUY AND YOUR OUT DO'N YOUR THING WITH OUT HIM BUT YOU NEED HIM TO BE THINKING OF YOU SO MUCH THAT HE CAN'T HAVE THIS TIME TO DO HIS THING. WOULDN'T YOU RATHER HIM DO HIS THING WHILE YOUR BUSY THAT WAY WHEN YOUR NOT BUSY HE CAN BE WITH YOU HAVING ALREADY GOT HIS STUFF OUT OF THE WAY.
2006-06-18 17:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋