My sister wants to marry a heroin adict and live on well fare? what should I do?

Answer 1

Let her make her own choices. You cannot stop her from making her own mistakes, and this is a big one.

The best that can come of this is she might be able to help him overcome his addiction. However, chances are she will not be able to, as addiction is a personal problem, and he will have to deal with this in his own way.

Pray for her...it is the best thing you can do for her. And while you are praying for her, throw in a prayer for him. He certainly needs it.

Answer 2

let her but first give her the biggest lecture ever. let her marry that man and remind her of what her life will happen in five years. no house, no welfare, no life, in jail. if shewants to be that way and have a life like that then let her,whats it to you, when she comes asking for food or money dont give in, close your door , i know she is your sisiter but hey you warned her. you will be her escape from her life when she gets into a fight with her man, you will not be there for her when she needs you. dont give in to her. let her be with her drugs and welfare. welfare will run out, drug guy will move on to another drug girl.you'll see she will be back hopfully in her right mind.it may take years hopfully months!!! good luck.

Answer 3

Learn to spell well fare its welfare let her go maybe they will both O.D. and I wont have to support them with my taxes.

Answer 4

start off by threating her with the cops!! she would be stupid to even get into something like that

Answer 5

kick her *** if she does not come to her senses...damn, thats just not thinking on her part.

Answer 6

let the ***** learn from her mistakes

Answer 7

let her be its her life not yours.