such as being betrayed by a friend and her causing all kind of troble for me.. could she be in love with me or my bfriend? she has been stalking me for over a year and has become a real pain calling my job, mybfriend trying to cause trouble, following me,,what a witch! help i am stressed, police hands are tied, states attorney says before i can get a restraing order i have to be physically hit...she already attacked one of my friends,,,,i try to ignore her, but when she follows me yelling and shooting birds its hard not to see1!!!! hellpppppppp
2006-06-18 17:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by iamsunshine32043 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
you said: before i can get a restraing order i have to be physically hit..
Not true. go to thecourt house and get a R.O.
2006-06-18 17:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by haresgroove 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people cry wolf, and everyone's crazy one way or another, it sounds to me like you had a lesbian experience gone sour, I've heard these kinda stories before.
I knew a kid that used to call his mother and everyone else like 30 to 70 times anytime you turned around, take in mind that was just a little kid that new how to use a phone to call everybody once he had a number it was a bad habit. If he does that when he's older than he'll probably be considered a stalker just for that alone.
But on a serious note, if you're being stalked online, plenty of block/ignore features available for email, IM's, you name it, don't sink into paranoia and keep head up and straight, relax. If she's really calling where you work and doesn't work at same place you do the employer should just block her calls.
In any event you must always have valid proof of stalking, and it's worse when it's someone you don't know, I've been stalked for over 4 years now and it's mostly women I don't know wanting to have 3 somes or sex, that's scary.
2006-06-18 17:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by CHINA DOLL GIRL'S HUSBAND {=_=} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront this *****, when you see her ask her what her problem is. ask if it is your bfriend shes after, or you. she may be upset that you are no longer friends and wants to still go every where you go, or she has her own selfish greed in front of her and is getting her rocks off on f***ing up your life because she is threatened by it being better than hers. if police say they cant help, and shes attacking your other friends, and by the sounds youve tried every thing to ignore or stop her and she wont stop, so take matters into your own hands and punch the thing out, she may get a restraining order ,but even if she took out the restraining order she will still have to stay away from you or she would be breaking it. i know of people who have died waiting to be hit, but instead get killed, so go and knock her out before she gets you.
2006-06-18 17:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by leoness1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes shooting birds (ie with a gun) I think you have right to call the police. I think the term fear of volence or body harm is an arrestable offfense (not sure about your country) but anyway see if you can get a free chat with a lawyer about this.
2006-06-18 17:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Hex Vision 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could well be very jealous of you, seeing you happy with others, while she's always available.
She must have missed your friendship.
Can you give here some allowance till she get over it!
Be nice to her, just smile, then talk it over between the two of you.
2006-06-18 17:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Walt. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. You could confront her. Tell her that its over, that you want nothing to do with her, and that she needs to leave you alone. If she cant do that, it frees you up. Invite her out to meet you someplace and have some guys you hired beat her up.
2006-06-18 17:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't kill her.
Just figure out a way to make her wish she were dead, already!
2006-06-25 03:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill her
2006-06-18 17:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by sha.babyblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋