I have been this girls friend for 6 years and recently she found out her husband cheated on her. Well I tryed to be there for her andshe kept saying if she wasn't with him she would be with me. And kept coming on to me and then told me her husband is the love of her life !!! like what the hell ?? then i told her to stop playing mind games . She got pissed to be to F off and die. Sooo should I try to repair this friendship.. I mean i have always been there for her... I don't know what to do And I need some advice..should I tell her to F off tooo??????? HELP ME !!!!!!!!
2006-06-18 16:52:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to her!!Just let her know how you feel and that you do have feelings for her(more than friends) but let her know that it hurt your feelings for her to say one thing one minute, and another another minute.Tell her that she is confusing you and that if you can't have an intimite relationship, that you still wnat to be friends because you want to be there for her.
2006-06-18 17:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be the rebound guy in waiting. Apparently she feels a safeness with you but it shouldnt go further than just being there to let her vent. Can you really think of being in a "loving" relationship with a woman who has professed how much she has loved her husband? You will always remember that in the back of your mind if you are with her! Just my 2 cents. Not sure if its even worth that! LOL
2006-06-19 00:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by brattcatt40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you have been there for her for 6 years but you don't say that she has been there for you. Think about your relationship with her...is it one-sided? Is she using you?? If not then talk to her and work this out...no good friendship is worth loosing over some misunderstanding. Please also be prepared in case she takes her husband back. Good luck to you both.
2006-06-19 00:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by indylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to repair da friendship but if she keeps comin on to u tha u should tell her to cut it out cuz u have a husband i dont swang like dat and i still want to be ur firend i juss dont want u comin on to me lyke dat if u say ur husband is the love of ur life
2006-06-19 00:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl200532618420002000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her and you cool off. she will probably realize first anyway that she needs you there for support. she probably appreceates all those years and only said that in the heat of the moment. ( any girl would lose her control w any friend if she just got cheated on - and guess what - she has a right to, and that is exactly what a good friend ,you, are there for - to let her! that is the only way that helps..) good luck =)
2006-06-18 23:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously confused and try to understand that she's probably been going through a rough time and is having trouble making sense of things. Try to just be there for her as a friend for now and try to understand her feelings. Just give her some time. Good luck!
2006-06-18 23:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound worth it to me. Mind games... drove her husband to cheat? I'm not saying it's her fault but it could be! It doesn't sound like she knows what she wants either.
2006-06-18 23:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself - do you want a platonic friendship with her or a sexual one? In any case, the best way to get a female's attention is to IGNORE her.
2006-06-19 00:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on with your life obviously she is confused on who she wants to be with, and there's no need to get your self hurt
2006-06-18 23:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by single mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her F off
2006-06-19 04:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋