me and my boyfriend were talkin and he started tellin me about his brother who's married and has two kids well that his bro. is cheatin on his wife. and we started havin a conversation about it and he basically said that he would do the same if he got tired of who ever he's with two. i don't what to think like he makes me think he'll cheat on me or that he is. am i being dumb or something for thinkin this or what should i think????
2006-06-18 16:48:42 · 33 answers · asked by GigglesGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is a tough situation! Ok well my feeling is that you are young and shouldn't settle for a guy that is admitting to you that he will cheat on you. The smart thing to do is to move on fast before you get any more serious about him. I have been married for almost 10 months and I have an 8 and a half month old baby and if my husband ever cheated I would leave. If not for me, then for our daughter's sake. The smart thing to do would be to leave, but the smart thing isn't always the easy thing. But don't fool yourself into thinking you can change this guy. If you want to try maybe tell him that you if you got bored you're gonna cheat on him, too. If he is admitting he's gonna cheat on you, don't get serious about him. Good Luck!!
2006-06-18 16:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by linds_a_lot 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
something like that can really break a girls heart. At least he was honest with u...i don't blame u for thinking the way that u do...if your still with him then just keep your eyes open while your in the relationship...don't automatically assume he is because he said that...now if he shows signs of cheatin then thats a different story. communication is the key to every relationship don't lose it.
2006-06-18 17:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend just did you a BIG favor. He let you know in no uncertain terms that he is most definitely NOT marriage material. Keep him as a boyfriend if you want, but don't marry him under any cricumstances. He'll cheat on you while you are at home taking care of your baby. Then, he'll abandon you.
2006-06-18 16:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be with a man that will cheat on you at the drop of a hat. You need someone you can trust! Talk to him and make sure that you didn't misunderstand him, and if its true tell him bye bye! You don't need to worry if he's board of you from day to day! Kick the drama and find a new man that will treat ya right!
2006-06-18 16:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by mini_may04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it sounds like he has said "if you don't keep me interested I have no problem cheating on you" pretty loud and clear. If his brother can do it without getting any negative side effects, this boy will have no reason not to do it himself. If that bothers you, he is not the one for you - so ff you have been thinking about keeping this one for a long term, I think you are right to think again.
2006-06-18 16:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys say things they don't realy mean or they often speak with out thinking.
Your best bet is to find out how he realy feels about his brother cheating during a heart to heart.
If he thinks its okay, then get rid of him. Chances are it is a family pattern that started with the father.
If he realy despises it deep down inside then you may be okay!
2006-06-18 16:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by lovingfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely let him know whatever he told you about cheating on his wife bothers you. Ask him if he really means it. If yes, I dont think you'd want to be involve with such guy. I believe you do not one your future husband to cheat on you right? You want a loyal hubby!! If your boyfriend thinks cheating on his wife after he got bored of her, I seriously think this person is SICK!! You do not want to deal with him anymore. Why put yourself in that risk. I mean there are tons of better guys out there waiting for you. Why spend time with someone who already inform you he WOULD CHEAT ON YOU AFTER HE GOT TIRED OF YOU!!!!
2006-06-18 16:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. tough one. wait a little and see how he acts in other situations. Dont just dump over one sentence like that. I would definitely flip a little if I heard that from my boyfriend, but I would try to forget about it for a while and give him more time to show what he is really going to be like in marriage, not just go off of one thing he let slip... best of luck ! hope it works out for you and he really isnt an asshole like his brother
2006-06-18 16:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright that dude seriously needs counseling and you need to LOSE him quick. You don't want a guy that says if he's tired of you and will in fact cheat, now that right there should tell you that he will and probably is.
2006-06-18 16:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by localgirl420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away. As fast and as far as you can! He just told you he will cheat on you! If you stay, and he cheats, how can you guarantee he won't bring home every std known to man and share them with you?!
That kind of jerk doesn't even deserve an explanation as to why you left him. He already knows. (BUT if he asks- just tell him you got bored w/him!)
2006-06-18 16:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by DixieAnne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋