One day I was taking my friend home and she told me that the guy that I've been having sex with is having a baby by another girl. It doesn't get on my nerve that he was having sex with other girls because we were not going out. The part the bothers me is that he still want to have sex with me but he won't tell me he got another girl pregnant. Am i right or wrong to cut him off?
2006-06-18 16:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by Cara W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you feel like cuting him off then cut him off. I mean I wouldn't want to have sex with him if he doesn't even bother to mention he's going to be a daddy soon.
2006-06-18 16:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Wants2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right for cutting him off and this should serve as a serious message to yourself. Getting another girl pregnant should be a relief considering that u guys were freely having sex. It could have been worse because by him getting another girl pregnant shows that he might have not used protection and you could be looking at the possibilities of being infected with a std or worse HIV.
2006-06-18 23:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by reeseusps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you are just sex buddies or in a real relationship. Unless, you know if he is still having sex with other people cut him off.
2006-06-18 23:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by finesthaitian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot potato. Sex is more than just the "hots" - it's affection, commitment, responsibility. He demonstrates none of those qualities and you don't know enough to realize what's missing. Hold out for better.
2006-06-18 23:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hums2oldies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy goes around getting girls pregnant and it doesn't affect his life at all. Sounds pretty sick to me. Cut him off. You'll be better off and you won't have to worry about disease and getting pregnant since he obviously doesn't use protection every time.
2006-06-18 23:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Eme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. You are showing self-respect by doing so. And, maybe, a little respect for the pregnant woman.
2006-06-18 23:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Angela W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were just giving it away and you weren't in a relationship to begin with, then why does it matter?
2006-06-18 23:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel bad.You were not with him then.Maybe he is confused about what to do.You should try and be A friend.
2006-06-18 23:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your wrong for slepping with him. you need to go to church and repent then become a desciple, so you can be forgiven of all your sins
2006-06-18 23:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by nicole_estrada13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋