my boyfreind i love him so much but this girl he use to like he's tellen me she likes him now and i didnt want him to go to his freinds house cuz i knew stuff would happen and i didnt get to talk to him at this weekend and his freind was acten like him tell me rude stuff and my bf called me told me it was his freind and he didnt know wat to do he said he told him to stop but like now im scared my boyfreind likes her because his freind stepbrother told me he called her like 8 times but he could be lien but im not sure and he has her screen names and i just got her screen name so i could talk to her but now i feel like throwen up because im so worried. idk wat to do
2006-06-18 16:25:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
whew, I am sure glad I am not a teenager, I don't ever remember taking young love so serious. I know it is very important to you and I am not making light of it, but whatever happens , you will get over it to love again. I always saw it from a guys perspective, g/f's were like a car to be bought, driven and traded for a new model occassionally. most guys don't worry so much about the love aspect, I am really learning from these questions how important love and b/f's are to females. they really stress over this stuff. guys don't or at least they don't admit it. seems like when a gurl gets cheated on or dumped they take it personally, it isn't , you have no control over what the other person does. it isn't a flaw in your character that you couldn't make someone love you or even respect you. you do teach people how to treat you and what you will allow them to get away with. that said, you gave it your best shot, it is out of your hands. it's up to him now, just don't sit and wait for him to decide, don't waste your life.
2006-06-18 16:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey.....calm down. That's first.
Take a deep breath.
Now if you trust your boyfriend, you don't have much to worry about. After all, he DID tell you that that girl likes him. He could have kept quiet. But something sounds fishy [obviously]. The quickest way to get to the bottom of all this is to ask your boyfriend. Clear up all rumors and worries. then you'll know whether you have anything to worry about or not. No one else has the answers. Good luck.
2006-06-18 23:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Melonball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this might seem a bit cliche but if he does like this girl it was not meant to be between you two. so don't worry about it there is nothing done in secret that wont come to light sooner or later besides if he does like this girl then it will let you know that he is not a man of morals or respect and you will be better off without him.
2006-06-18 23:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you enjoy living your life in a sucking whirlpool of drama? Because this has "train wreck" written all over it. Either you trust your boyfriend or you don't. If you trust him, then trust him. If you don't, dump him and get a boyfriend that you can trust.
2006-06-18 23:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by TKDgirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a mess kid go to Iraq get a taste of struggle in life
2006-06-18 23:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump the fool i bet you could find you someone better... hes just playing you for a fool..
2006-06-18 23:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by LocaChica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask, if you can't ask that nicely you shouldnt be dating
2006-06-18 23:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋