2006-06-18 16:08:34 · 31 answers · asked by maryjo 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
If he wasn't a cross-dresser than I would wonder why he was doing that. Depending on why and my feelings towards him and how long we've been together that would be where I would base my decision. If it's something he does for fun and there's nothing wrong with him mentally and he's not ruining your stuff and you love him and been with him long enough that you think you can deal with it might as well stick around but if it makes you uncomfortable you have to tell him. You have to be open and honest with your guy.
2006-06-18 16:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by grkgoddessm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.......ladies......what is the big deal? it's just underwear.
Wearing panties and bra does not usually me your guy is gay.
Most crossdressers never totally dress....just female stuff under their clothes, and most crossdressers are NOT gay. Gay men are attracted to men....Masculine the same things that women are attracted to in a guy. The fem dressing acting gay guy is actually a rarity and is more often than not a person with true gender issues. Most gays will not have anything to do with them but are grouped in with gays. transgenders and the like are pretty much an exclusive group as women don't want them...and neither do the gay guys. Lighten up and let him express his feminine side, all you are going to do is find a guy that will be nicer....more in touch with his emotions and actually able to feel and be many of the things that you women want your guys to be but can never get them to do. He already has serious esteem issues over his desires, but can't help himself...If he has told you then he is taking a HUGE step in his mental health, if you found him out, then he is very messed up and freaked out. Treat him well, and you will be amazed at what you will get.
2006-06-18 17:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by drex5ge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would freak out and break up with him in a heart beat because it isn't normal for a man to wear panties and bras. He basically wants to be a tran.
2006-06-18 16:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by lynnoo77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....surprised a guy chimed in.... Kudos to you drex5ge
I would...and HAVE done what you say....My guy is NOT gay, but his panty thing is simply a fetish...It brings him sexual arousal and nothing else. So, we have fun with it..... We are into a lot of stuff, and I have actually dressed him as a woman and taken him into public...shopping, clubbing as a woman.....he has felt how women are treated first hand, and is shocked...and through the experience has really become a better MAN!
2006-06-18 17:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by starfox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creepy. I would not mind if he wears silk boxers. Panties and bras are for girls, and I am a girly girl who wants a manly man.
2006-06-30 09:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot, he isn't hurting anyone, why wuold I care? In fact, once my guy put on lipstick for me when I joked about dressing him up. I always thought it might be fun to go out to the gay clubs on drag night with me dressed as a guy and hi as a chick but he won't go for it
2006-06-18 17:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Songbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly women think guys dont like to feel the awsome touch of silk against their skin?
Then you are idiots!
just because a guy likes to dress up doesn't mean he is gay.
2006-06-30 06:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by ateballer33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on their purpose in dressing up like that. If it's just for fun, sure... if they're trying to be something they aren't, I'd be a little uncomfortable (note that I wouldn't "kick him out" if he was gay, it's supposed to be acceptable in a democracy).
2006-06-18 16:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by WaterfallOfDestiny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy who wear panties what wrong with it
2006-06-20 23:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't care as long as he doesn't ruin mine!
It's fun to dress them up- sometimes they even look better than you do! LOL
2006-06-18 16:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by sundrizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋