Here is the problem I am so upset. I am sorry if I am bothering u with my worries, but I really need to get this out! I have tried to make up with my friend,. He is not e-mailing me or caling me at all. We never had a fight! He is just jealous M*r! Sorry, but I pissed at him!
When I got on the honor rol he was jealous. When I got into biology he was jealous. When I got beter grades than him, he was jealous!
When he got on the honor roll, I was happy for him. When he got great grades, I was happy for him. When he got away from my school, I was jealous, but also happy!
I known him for nearly 5 year! I do not want to sever our conection, but make up! Today, I caled him and he was talking al like he was so bored that I cal! I was whispering all the cuse words I knew at him low enough so that he did not hear . I know he did not her it. Iam not always like that. I never do anything bad to him. I just fel so empty He talked to me about his other best friend, but do not tel her bout me!
2006-06-18 15:45:59 · 14 answers · asked by coolcat123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey coolcat123,
It seems to me that If your friend can't be happy for you, like you are always happy for him then he's not your true friend. Leave him alone, he won't know till you are gone how good of a friend you are. A true friend would be happy for you not jealous of you.
2006-06-18 15:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by sillyck 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
At some point in our lives, we outgrow our friends. This seems to have happened in your case. The fact that you've been friends for five years is great, but doesn't necessarily mean that the next five years of your life will accommodate this friendship.
I had very very close friends back in school, but I know that if I was to meet them on the street tomorrow, we would have nothing in common. Outlooks on life are different, goals are different, WE are different.
Let it go. It sounds like a good time to start making some new friends.
2006-06-18 15:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bapboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the friendship is one sided. If your best friend cannot be happy for you as you have been happy for him, as well as supportive, then you might as well move on.
I would suggest that you stop contacting him - let him cool off for a while, and see if he contacts you - and if not - no great loss then.
Since he seems to have another best friend, maybe he has moved on and that is why he is distant from you.
Let him go then for you deserve someone who treats you better than he does.
One day he may look back and realize what he has lost, but that will be his problem, not yours.
Good Luck!
2006-06-18 15:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he such a bad friend it might be better to let go and not be friends anymore. But if you really like the friend ship I would try talking to him and tell him what he is doing. Or you could try doing what he is doing and maybe he will then know how you feel and stop doing it. Hope I helped.
2006-06-18 15:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by highfivingmf? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just give him time. maybe he'll come around and talk to you. ive been through what you're going through now. and ive learned to just give him some space and some time and maybe he'll come around. maybe he's empty without you too,and you just don't know it. but yeah.. hope i helped. maybe you could find someone like him. im going through the same thing, but my bestfriends are moving. so yeah... i know what you're feeling. :) hope it helps you out.
2006-06-18 15:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he talked to you maybe he was just having a bad day and hes been busy, for all you knoe he lost a relative, give him some time
good luck
2006-06-18 16:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are like thiss i was lik this toward a friend what he did was ,he said what have you got againt me i told him everything we then made up and said each others good points
2006-06-18 15:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by pinkman_51192 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are replacable.
2006-06-18 15:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has problems just because you studied hard for that honor role that's messed up
2006-06-18 15:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by blackdragon12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just 4get about him because if he is doing that to you then he isn't such a good friend now is he??
2006-06-18 16:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋