my b/f and I live together. within the last few months sex has become a chore for him. he says he just doesn't think about it because it's just not on his mind. says he just has no sex drive because he's getting older (he's 32). yet I do find that he masturbates although he says he doesn't even do that very often. I know he likes to look at porn on the internet which is a huge battle between us. I think if he is in the mood to see it online he should be in the mood for me. we average twice a month. guys...help me out here
2006-06-18 15:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by nursepenny33 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Try boosting his sex drive by painting your body gold that might arouse him
2006-06-24 09:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by dishwasher67 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once you first enter a courting, sex is new and exciting. you nevertheless don't understand a lot about one yet another, and a roll in the hay is an engaging adventure. As relationships mature, although, sex starts off to develop into previous hat. you do not have the buzz of sorting out what turns on your important different anymore. in case you and your boyfriend are stuck in the missionary rut, attempt spicing issues up somewhat the subsequent time you're in the sack. provide him a warm oil rub down, mild candles, use sex toys, or communicate dirty. yet as well sex, attempt pursuing a deeper, better intimate courting, one which would not contain the bedroom.
2016-10-14 07:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it.
How long have you been living together? You aren't married (he isn't committed)? Sex is "a chore" for him (with you)?
2+2 = He's plugging somebody else. Unless he's horribly depressed or medicated, twice a month isn't enough - I gaurantee it.
Ditch that fool.
2006-06-18 15:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by cracka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking dirty in bed like when hes down on you ask if it would be hot to have another girl watching or joining stuff like this it sounds bad but it works some times things are the same all the time something like this ounce in awhile keeps him thinking about it and cant wait to do it again to see what you have in store.Happy humppin yeah
2006-06-18 15:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he overweight, taking medications for high BP or cholesterol, because that will zap it, too. Try being naughty. Let yourself be his porn for a night. Go out to eat and wear a skirt with no panties!!! I drove my husband nuts with that one.
2006-06-18 15:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by misty p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bj a day,first thing every day.should solve the problem.just try and be a little more giving even though he doesn't please you its not his fault if you don't tell him how and if you don't know find your self a girlfriend who can so you what a women needs...as far as his pleasuring himself he would have to if you where doing your wifely choirs.good luck.
2006-06-18 15:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being intimate and romantic with him. And tell him to stop looking at so much porn! If he can masterbate he should be able to do it with you.
2006-06-18 15:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to have too much interest in the porn. and not enough for you!
2006-06-18 15:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his @$$ and tell him to start putting out 'cause there's starving kids in cambodia or alaska or something. and disconnect the interent and re-connect the couple thing.
2006-06-18 16:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by brandonwankenobi416 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just loseing intrest
2006-06-18 15:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by canadianryan2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋