My friend is being a total b*tch and its been goin on for ages and i just tired of being put in the middle wat should i do end the friendship or just deal with it ??
2006-06-18 15:15:58 · 23 answers · asked by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well being a b*itch as in trying to steal my friends bfs and then making fun of my other friends talkin behind there backs and stuff like that and i just donno wat to do
2006-06-18 15:23:30 · update #1
Well do u think that i should just leave it for the summer and see if it changes when we go back to skewl
2006-06-18 15:45:29 · update #2
kick her to the curb dont even warn her...
2006-06-18 15:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some room , a few days , then explain your too mean or bossy , what ever .. And if she starts up again , just avoid her a little .Keep in touch every few days , then weeks and so on .But just ending it doesn't let her know "hey I like you as a freind but when you do ....or that I don't want to be around you ,so give me a call later .Keeps you as a not so close freind and never in the middle ! But on a freindly bases .She might change and if not and you placed some space , if you see her you to will at least say hi , how have you been , well nice seeing you , take care .I have two freind both about 15 years now , I have a lot of people I see and say hi , bye , nice to run into you .And I call them once a week or so . My freinds ,I trust and love as family .
2006-06-18 22:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is one of the most important things in life. Not how much money, how many posessions, how popular or powerful or any other list of so called "achievements" you can accumulate. Sometimes when people push friends away from themselves it is at that time they are most in need of someone to fellowship with. Remember treat others the way you want to be treated. That doesn't always mean the other will give you the same respect, but as long as you stick to it with no high hopes, the other will benefit from your love.
2006-06-18 22:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by SoundgearAW100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep the friendship talk to your friend, and tell her how her additude is making you feel without putting her down or insulting her. For example "Jane, your bad additude makes me feel bad, and that I feel you don't want me around as a friend. Why do you have a bad additude?" or something to that effect. Offer to help her out with whatever her problem is, and that you're willing to help her out anyway you can because you want to still be friends. If she still has a bad additude tell her that you won't be able to still be friends if she continues to act like this, and give her time to think about it. Giver her some time before you make a decision; she might have a problem that is too difficult to deal with. If you do decide to leave her as a friend if she comes back later on willing to change take her back, and give her another chance.
2006-06-18 22:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to face that decision a while ago and i took all the bs. Now i found out that that friend used me so i could have just lost the friendship in the first place. So decide how good of a friend it is.
2006-06-18 22:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by ekilps_08_25_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you feel that it is a give and take relation ship(not just a give and give relationship!!)then go 4 it!stick to it!But....if she is hurting your feelings over and over again and doing things that you think is wrong then just stop hanging around her.if she does not even hang around you(like YOU always find her or YOU save her a seat in lunch etc.)then she will probably be fine and not really care(that will hurt at first).sence you gave SO much into that friendship it WILL be hard but if that is what you feel is the right thing to do then just break it off.
good luck,your gunna need it!and god bless
2006-06-18 22:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there(MANY TIMES) DOne that situation for me!! If she is putting you through anything but love, support, and joy...she is NOT a friend in the true sense of the word. Dont worry about losing the "friendship"(and I use that term loosely)...to her...it was NEVER even there! :)
2006-06-18 22:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by may_may_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine kept cutting down every time I would get something new,, and she was jealous of my daughter,, and I had enough,, so I just stopped calling her, and the funny thing is,, she never called me either..
So,, i felt like a part of me is gone,, it has been over a year since I have spoke w/ her,, and I see her out and about.
2006-06-18 22:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up from the friend and get to know some other people. You can still be familiar with her, but don't be so close that what she says severely impacts your life.
2006-06-18 22:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!
Life is to short to live in the negative realm of gossip, reruns, and drama. Surround yourself with people who like you for you and entertain themselves with positve atmospheres not constant fighting and beligerance.
2006-06-18 22:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not seem like you gave enough info for us to respond rationally. What is she being a ***** about and is this a "friend" or an aquaintance?
2006-06-18 22:21:47 · answer #11 · answered by Vivacious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋