My husband and I want a baby, we have had unprotected sex for the past thirty months, though we dont track body temps or anything like that we are both young and average sex 2to 3 times per month my periods are normal and he has had kids before
2006-06-18 15:15:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
well there are ovualtion kits you can try im doing them now and they are great !!! you buy them at the drug store or any shop that sells pregnancy stuff... you buy an ovulation kit for 5 days it comes with 5 peeing cups and 5 tests you do one test a day for 5 days at the same time every day.... it sort of looks like a pregnancy test but for ovualtion.... it comes up positive when you are at your highest and that means you are going to ovulate in 24 - 36 hours so you have sex on the day you get a positive and the day after....its worked for alot of women thats just an easier thing to try so that when you know you are most fertile you can plan a romantic evening and just enjoy the night instead of worrying the WHOLE month about making sure that you and your husband had sex on certain days so goodluck and for the future CONGRATS
2006-06-18 17:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by bellitarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When me and my husband were trying to get pregnant we had sex all the time, sometimes a few times a day... and after he did his thing in me I put a pillow under my butt so gravity could help out a bit, and we were pregnant by the second month....
So maybe you should have sex a little more, even though it may start to feel like work.. If you want to know when your ovulating there are calenders all over the net, but the easiest way is to measure how much vaginal discharge you have between periods, the more you have the most likely you are ovulating.. and if that doesn't work go see the doc and find out what's going on.. Good luck!!!
2006-06-18 15:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been trying for 30 months, hun, it's time to go to a doc for some help. If your hormone levels are off it can keep you from getting pregnant...and you won't even notice them.
And...if you are only have sex 2-3 times a month, you should probably be trying to up that. You should be having sex every other day during your fertile times (usually days 10-16 of your cycle). Sperm regenerate every 3 days, but you have to clear the dead ones out, otherwise that's all you're getting. None of the live ones are going to make it!
2006-06-18 17:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by tigger062077 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Timing is everything. Personally I recommend you buy a kit at your local drugstore that helps you track when you are ovulating so the timing is right.You only average sex 2-3 times a month? You're kidding me right?
2006-06-18 15:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by heavenly28001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have sex wayyyyy more often, but don't think about doing it for the reason of getting pregnant, just relax and enjoy, your moment will come. Also whenever you start to see more discharge down there, that is when you really need to have more sex the day yo ovulate is the day when you have the most discharge. So have sex the most around that week.
2006-06-18 16:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out your ovulation dates, and have sex within those 10 days.
good luck I know its hard getting into routine but thats what you have to do otherwise if your doing it at the wrong time nothing will happen the way you want.
2006-06-18 15:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by BrunettesRbetter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 to 3 times per month? that's not very much, maybe try to up it to 5 times a week! also, maybe see your doc., if they think there's something to check on, they'll tell you. Good luck!
2006-06-18 15:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying. Once you seriously give up and stop trying you will get pregnant. It always works that way.
2006-06-18 15:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋