I have this friend and we were suppose to hang flyers around town to earn money for camp. Well she is going to break up with her boyfriend and go out with anthor boy and now she has plans with the other boy and she is tottally just blowing me off. Also for the flyers she was suppose to help me make them tom. but she has plans so I had to do them all by myself! Plus whenever i have a boyfriend she always gets mad because i have to hang out w/ him and her! but when she has a boyfriend i have to write her a note to get her attetion! She always says friends are more important than boyfriends but I think she is just saying that as an act! What should I do tho, I have 6 flyers and who know when she will get away from the boys for 1 sec to help me hang them up?
2006-06-18 15:01:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her what you told us. Sounds like she needs to be less me, me,me.
2006-06-18 15:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Zinc 6 · 18⤊ 1⤋
I am very sorry if the following answer sounds rude. I think the thing is though, that although girls will never admit it, they will always choose a boyfriend over a girlfriend. You need to get use to this, as it is a fact of life. Hang the flyers yourself. You cannot wait for friends to help you with things like this, because when it comes down to responsibilities or something fun, young people will always pick something fun. Im sorry, but this is really how I feel.
2006-06-18 22:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by joyfulnoise83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its just a jealousy thing. When you have a man she's mad cause she wants all of your attention. When she has the man she's rubbing it in your face. I wouldn't count on her helping you with the flyer's. They say boys come and go but friends are there forever. Personally I don't believe that but to each their own.
2006-06-18 22:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by mexgirlcaliente 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her an ultimatium, either deal with me or not. What I mean is that tell her your not just a friend when she don't have a boyfriend. But friends when you have a boyfriend and to give you more attention.
2006-06-18 22:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Del M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her, go out and make other better friends
2006-06-18 22:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Coolguy72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, obviously she tries to skip doing the hard work. she thinks she can get away with it. do whatever you have to do for fund raiser. make her work for her own funds!
2006-06-18 22:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by doreajean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just finding out that she was wrong.
2006-06-18 22:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS TO ME, SHE IS A USER AND SELFISH ONE AT THAT. HER TERMINOLOGY OF FRIENDSHIP IS WARPED. IT MAY BE DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO DO. BUT, TO SAVE FACE-STAND CLEAR OF HER. SHE MAY RUIN YOUR LIFE. GOOD LUCK.
2006-06-18 22:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by SLOWTHINKER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut 'er loose!!!
2006-06-18 22:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by lookn_4_laffs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋