how long does it take for a guy to get over with his stupid problem that he thinks his GF is cheating on him when she really isnt. i love him so much we have a baby together, im gonna go home and he aint gona talk to me wat shud i do wen i get home pls dont reply back something like ditch his ass
2006-06-18 14:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, he's obsessive. And he's insecure! If he's blaming you for cheating and you aren't and he has no real basis for blaming you or accusing you then it's a problem. He probably has inseurity issues that stem from lack of female role models. Maybe he didn't have a Mom around or maybe his Dad treated/treats his mom that way.
Get to know about his Mom and about his ex-girlfriends and how his other relationships turned out. If he's not able to talk about these issues with you without being defensive or he keeps on, it's only going to get worse. It could turn into him being over-protective and overbearing and obsessive. Which could eventually lead to abuse.
Alot of girls can't see the big picture about how this happens in steps and how it gets worse. Most of these guys are unfixable but, maybe he's not so bad off, perhaps your doing something that gives him a reason to suspect you even if it's nothing. Whatever it is, talk about it with him, and try to make compromises on the situation. Just remember, if it gets to be to much, it may not be worth it to salvage your own relationship with him even if you have a child together.
2006-06-18 15:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get over himself. if u were cheating on him, u would b leaving every day or close 2 that saying *oh im gonna go hang wit my girlz*. sit him down and explain to him that nothing is going on and u have a baby with him for christ sakes and u love him 2 death, y would u need any1 else? if he still doesnt believe u, go 2 a friends house until he comes and talks to u. u dont deserve 2 b treated like that. hope it helps!
2006-06-18 22:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you are cheating on him? I am not the best at this so don't give me ten points. But I would try to convince him that you are not and that he is the only one for you. My gf is the same way although she never actually accused me of cheating but instead says I don't love her when in fact I actually do. Tell him you love him and be convincing about it.
Good luck with this
2006-06-18 22:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Neilman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i been married for 5 yrs now and my wife cheated on me the one thing i can say is sit down and talk to him and try not to attck him it going to be real hard not to...ask him what made u think i am cheating on u...do u have prof that i did what u said i did?, adn how did u get ur info,. there is not eazy way to go about this but u need to try if i think ur realionship is worth fighting for
2006-06-18 22:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by looneytoons_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going out and just talking to him plus try to be by his side cause if your with him most of the time then he will know your not with someone else plus don't give him any reason to think the way he is don't run your mouth to your friends about yall issues talk to him alone and don't scream regular tone helps a lot
2006-06-18 22:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by donnellharrison218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want this relationship to work just be patient with him and encourage him everyday by telling him how much you love him and want to be with him and only him. Stroke his ego as much as possible for that necessary boost of confidence. I know you may feel like that is just to much for one relationship but if you want it to work out you have to go that extra mile. Men are becoming more and more serious about relationships and they wear their hearts on their sleeves. As much as they hate to admit t it just pay close attention to what he is doing and you would see just how serious they are. Just be patient but also watch out because he could also turn out to be violent in the end if he feels like you are playing with his emotions.
2006-06-18 22:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Snuggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen alot of people blame others from cheating when they are the ones that are cheating themselves.
2006-06-18 22:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by aausny23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you need to let him realize that himself. You can't force yourself upon him. You may have had his child but you can't make him love you. If it's real...it will all work out to your favor in the end.
2006-06-18 22:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has probably been cheated on i nthe apst or maybe he is abusive and puts things in his head u never know or then again he is cheating and thinks you are like him
2006-06-18 22:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by And life goes on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him all the love and support to build the trust back...also u have to b a lil' more patient
2006-06-18 22:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋