We have been together for 4 years and have a son together. She feels as if she needs a break, but I feel that the time apart would just drive us even farther apart... Please help
2006-06-18 14:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by sinn_zx2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Time apart would not necessarily drive you two apart. Maybe she just needs a little time alone. I would be cautious though. Time for a break doesn't mean time with another guy!!! It means simply a break.
2006-06-18 14:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by mharris90 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you really need to fingure out what's making her feel like you two need the time apart. It's hard to really give you advice on this simply because you didn't really explain a lot. Normally I would say talk to her and let you know how you feel; however, it sounds like she has made up her mind and does want that break. Just give her space for now, and when things cool down between the two of you ask her what's going on and let her know how you feel as well.
2006-06-18 14:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by MzCaRaMeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her the time she needs and if it does drive you two apart let it be. It is better to give her what she wants now and let her see were she wants to be than to stay in it and bring her to the point were she steps out on you behind your back. Now if she does not come back to you it was never meant to be in the first place but if she does come back you have to think about if you really can take her back and deal with the fact that she probably was with another man or several other men. So you have to think about do you want to push her away and lose her forever or do yo want to let her go and see if you both were meant to be.
2006-06-18 15:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Snuggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels like she needs time apart give it to her. It may also means she is ready to sever the relationship altogether. give her space though. Don't force her to stay that will only make the situation worse. When she is ready to come back you all need to talk and decide where the future of the relationship is headed.
2006-06-18 14:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her her time apart, if you smother her, she will feel more distant from you. if you dont let her take the time she needs, she will start to resent you. she could just have a few things she needs to work out on her own. how old were you when you started seeing each other? if you were young, it could be understandable. she was young and feels she has some growing to do on her own. let her go. if she wants to be with you, she will come back. if not, then it wasnt meant to be
2006-06-18 14:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give her time. If the decision is for you guys to really stay apart it's going to happen regardless if you hold on to her right now or not. She will resent you for not allowing her to make her own decisions. Love is a choice.
2006-06-18 14:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by motormama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do that she felt that she needed some time apart??? There must be a reason. Give her time. Take care.
2006-06-18 14:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say give her some space , maybe she just got some problem and she needs time to think , if she love u she will come back if not then if was never meant for u and her to be together
2006-06-18 15:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her feel more important than you been making her feel try new things, try to keep the relationship exciting, and simply talking helps not trying to be hard all the time, let her talk and you listen more make her feel like your really interested in what she be saying , good luck cause you never no what you got until its gone get her back kid
2006-06-18 14:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by donnellharrison218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If she comes back, it was meant to be.
2006-06-18 14:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋