ok so there is my cousin but she is only like 6 she claims she loves me and wants to marrey me but she is a little messed up so i dont want 2 tell her that we cant marrey her
2006-06-18 14:02:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
what???
2006-06-18 17:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by bellitarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little kids get very strong ideas in their heads. She does love you - just not romantically. Ask her mom (your aunt) how she thinks you should handle it; maybe you could have a play wedding if you don't think that's too weird. (It would make her very happy and you guys would laugh about it when you grow up.)
Otherwise, you need to tell her that you're just not ready for marriage, no matter how much she wants to. When she asks why, just say "I'm not old enough - and neither are you." When she asks "when we will be old enough?" Say "When we're both 18" Kids that age need specific answers. And do tell her that you love her very much because she's your cousin. Believe me, you will laugh about this some day!
2006-06-18 21:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in playing along with her, and saying sure some day we can get married. You will be a passing fad anyways....she will "fall in love" so many more times before she knows what it really is. My daughter says she wants to marry me, her mom, her granddad....etc.
2006-06-18 21:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by B R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why exactly can't you tell her you cannot marry her????? It is simply common sense. Just tell her she is too young to get married. To let her live in a fantasy world would mess her up even more.
2006-06-18 21:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by _me_ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your question is???????? I was in love with my cousin at 5, but I grew out of it. At that age they don't know the difference, nor do they know it is wrong.
2006-06-18 21:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by samkat1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better tell her no you are going to have some messed up kids together and lots of medical conditions!!!!!
2006-06-24 12:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by needtoknow7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll get over you believe me
2006-06-22 14:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by ladyofthehollow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋