2006-06-18 14:01:53 · 9 answers · asked by Tha1&only 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well he doesnt talk 2 me like he used to and hes just more layed back than normal. and he started to txt my best friend.
2006-06-18 14:09:46 · update #1
^ Nyes, a little more information would have been helpful. At this stage all I can do is point to some common signs that indicate he *may* be cheating on you. Just remember none or even all of these are proof, but they can give you a better idea...
1) Receiving calls that he then takes in private:
Some people do this to be polite. Others do it because they just don't like other people hearing their half of the conversation. There is also the possibilty that it's someone they don't want you to know they're talking too.
2) Loss of interest in...that sort of thing (Wink, Wink)
Has your sexlife dried up conciderably? There are many reasons for it, but a common one is that he's getting it from somewhere else.
3) His social calander has filled up.
Is he suddenly going to see friends without you there? More to the point, does he adjust his shcedual for these little meetings? Again, could be perfectly innocent, but...making special effort for meeting casual friends is a little suspicous.
4) Have your arguments increased?
The girl (or guy) on the side, is the new and the fresh. They are the adventure. When it comes to personal and life issues these are always taken out on the home girlfriend/boyfriend. If you notice an increase in the arguments the two of you are having, then this is another indication.
Those are four big ones. If they are all happening at the same time, then your concern is justified. If it's just one or two...you have to go with your feelings. Something has obviously happened to make you suspicious, that could be a place to start. Just becareful with making an accusation, if you're wrong it can backfire on you...and quite badly. And once you make that accusation you won't be able to take it back.
Very hard to give you more advice without details, but I hope this has helped. Best wishes.
2006-06-18 14:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sith Puppy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking the question it either means you have reason to believe he is, or that you're generally insecure. If it's the first, the answer is probably yes. If it's the second, you need to get it under control or you will end up destroying the relationship on your own.
2006-06-18 21:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he texting your best friend? thats weird. sometimes guys get more comfortable in their relationships and dont act like they used to. they stop doing things that they used to do if they are no longer worried about you leaving. he could just feel comfortable in the relationship and thats why hes acting different. unless you have more information....
2006-06-18 21:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u any proof? What has he done to make u think that.Maybe its a guilty conscience on your part.
2006-06-18 21:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by BUTCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...well u need to give more information on the situation i don't know what's going on to judge at the moment...add more details...tyvm... :D
2006-06-18 21:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by crazyandhigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely, yes
2006-06-18 21:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by flösen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..yess you really do have to give more info sweetie..i mean noones really gonna know if you don't give us more info.
2006-06-18 21:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by yeeeeeeeeeeeeee' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give reasosn why he might be cheating on you.
2006-06-18 21:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do you?
2006-06-18 21:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋