he's hit me 4 times and cheated on me 3 times.
2006-06-18 13:33:42 · 21 answers · asked by angel_baby_9102003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good gods girl...ditch him. Or else prepare for a lifetime of that crap.
2006-06-18 13:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by circe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more than an isolated incident. My fiance just recently cheated on me. It was the first and will be only time that I will stay with someone who cheats on me.
Someone who has cheated once before is not a "cheater". Someone who does it repeatedly is a "cheater". They make a habit of cheating. Everyone makes mistakes, but it looks as though there is a trend with your fiance.
How many times can you forgive him? One time? Two times....shame on him. Three times....shame on you.
Please leave him at least for a while to clear your head. Get some counseling as it is well worth the money.
I know you have no trust right now, so just listen to me from experience.
God Bless
2006-06-19 23:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to plan carefully. If you so chose to give this person up plan carefully. It takes time for a women to comes to grips with an abusive spouse or friend. Second, dont be afraid to lose him. God will find you a better mate. Third if your not married and he is abusive can you imagine what will happen when you are on total lock down? yes, more abuse and even more cheating. Last, talk to an abusive center about the signs of abuse. NO WOMEN ON THE FACE OF THIS EARTH SHOULD BE TREATED AS A MAN PUNCHING BAG. The animals dont do it to their females . So any man that abuse a women is one of the lowest form of species. GET OUT WHILE YOU HAVE THE CHANCE AND DONT LOOK BACK.
2006-06-18 20:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one smart thing you can do and that is to get away from him. No body should hit there partner. If He cheats on you now he will only continue to do so for the rest of the time u are together. The hitting will only get worse as well so get out before u r married. Find someone who will be loving not abusive and one dedicated to u. Good Luck
2006-06-18 20:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by paul m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he still your fiance? Do you like being hit and cheated on? Or is he so rich it would be worth it?
2006-06-18 20:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by thylawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all dump him!!! if he keeps giving u problems put a restraining order!!! Don't let him hit u, because obviously he doesn't love u. If u stay with him he is going to get more aggresive.
2006-06-18 20:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by ana3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of abusive like physical or mental? If its physical abuse call the police immediately. And no matter what DUMP HIM!
2006-06-18 20:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. u deserve better. no one should put up with any one who cheats or hits.
2006-06-18 20:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually had to ask this question? LEAVE NOW before it gets worse.
2006-06-18 20:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely dump him. He sounds like a jerk to me.
2006-06-18 20:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by Appono Astos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋