My friends are always pressuring me to drink. I like drinking and everything but now all the time. They go out all the time and always want me to get drunk with them. what are some good excuses because being honest isnt working anymore.
2006-06-18 12:53:49 · 10 answers · asked by see_n_starz_03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they're also my roomates.
2006-06-19 21:31:16 · update #1
Tell them you don't won't to drink....
Your not in the mood or your sick of drinking 24/7....
My hubby use to do my like that when we were younger and after a while in front of everybody I just said NO!
Be you do what you want too do. Don't let them make you feel dumb! Your showing you are a adult and you make your on decision's. If they wanted you to eat dirt would ya? NO....
Tell them your not in the mood!
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2006-06-18 12:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that hard. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. But if they make you feel uncool for not drinking, you need new friends. If you're having a hard time, just cause they always want you to go out, but while you're there they drink and it makes you feel left out, drink coca-cola or something. Be the "designated driver". If you just don't want to go out so much, but don't want to seem like an intravert, find something really cool to do, that might even impress them and they'll want to do that instead. When I don't feel like drinking, I record music. I tell people I've got this bass line to record, but I'm really just playing around, recording and experimenting with different sounds. I go out enough as it is, being in a band, so when people want to hang out, I try not to go to the bars all the time. I already spend to much time and money there, playing music.
2006-06-18 20:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you want to the best thing for yourself and drinking all the time to get drunk is not what you want to do all them time. If they can't accept that they are not really your friends. Make some new ones if they can't compromise.
2006-06-18 19:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Birds of a feather flock together." You will always give in to peer pressure. In your case get a new flock of friends that don't drink. You're fighting a losing battle with the current flock.
2006-06-18 20:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stand firm and dont give in. Maybe try and make some friends who like to other things than drink. Hang at the mall or maybe at the lake or pool.. God Bless.
2006-06-18 19:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you have to know first you are a leader not a follower, I alot of times think to myself beside letting my friends and family down, the most important in my life, I am letting God down he sees all , if you pray to him he will bring you out. Second if they are really your friends they would not want to change you. Always know you have a higher standard to live by.
2006-06-18 20:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by tioman_28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i do is sstay away from them..which causes me to not have friends but at least im doing excilent in skool and i have a great gpa
its best to be ur self you noe u don't need wrong ppl
the nli person i trust is my bf
2006-06-18 19:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by jayda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one dump the friends if u dont want to do that and i dont know y just be like o i just had one or ill get one in a sec or something
2006-06-18 19:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by alai235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres a nice trick.... if your talking about beer... then what u do is you say you have to go to the bathroom go in there empty out the beer and fill it with water,,, and everytime its empty just "go to the bathroom" and fill it back up...
2006-06-18 19:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself some new friends.
2006-06-18 19:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Search 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋