why do MOST girls rather have someone who make them cry, instant of someone who nice and make them smile? do you like the adrenaline of being hurt? I know most girl don't but some seem to like it.
2006-06-18 12:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by Ceon 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
maybe we just want to feel *something* - anything, really.
besides...
when you go to bed with an ***-hole, you know who you'll wake up with in the morning - an ***-hole.
when you go to bed with a 'nice-guy', chances are you wake up next to an ***-hole. but this time, you're really disappointed.
with the ***-holes, you know what you get
2006-06-18 12:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girl is seldom able to predict whether a boy will treat her right or make her cry. But I think I know what you mean.
Whether we like to admit it or not, most schools and related social settings, where large numbers of people of both sexes meet one another, develop a sort of desirability hierarchy. That is, the prettiest girl with the most handsome boy, the second prettiest with the second most handsome, etc. Not totally, because after all things other than looks play some part. But the younger the people, the more it will be on the basis of looks, or sometimes money. Some girls -- possibly even most girls -- tend to reach higher on the "desirability hierarchy" than they can actually grasp. A girl hates to think she "settled for" a less than desirable guy, especially if her friends are in the ladies' room gossiping about him and saying "Eww, what does she see in him?" So they reach too high, and they get hurt. Because the guy is in the locker room with his friends saying, "Wow, you must really be hard up!"
Once they get too old to be swayed by peer pressure, they are much nicer to good, kind gentlemen who have waited patiently until they get the whole popularity contest thing out of their system. Be a friend, and don't give up hope.
2006-06-18 19:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some chicks are blind to a good thing or don't know any better. Maybe they have experienced bad relationships with guys do to a number of reasons. A woman might be scared of good guy cause bad guys are all she's used to. Then there are some chicks who like being hurt.
2006-06-18 19:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes to cry, but when the girl is in love with that someone she get hurts so quickly.
2006-06-18 19:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls don't know that they could hurt their feeling and Some think that those boys are cute while Some just like it.
2006-06-18 19:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude watch out for dat kind of girl..they like being abused cause they like the sympathy they get from being a 'victim'.. i had a friend once who was wit dis girl that was like that. she would talk all kinds of shat and then she started throwing stuff..well one day he got mad and threw something back..it didn't even hit her but she called the cops and he got put in jail for a night..they didn't charge him wit anything..but it still sucks to have to spend a shatty night in jail for a biotch like dat..peace..^stay away from dem chicken heads....even if you think they is cute..ain't worth it fo sure..
2006-06-18 21:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by corkymybottles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls like that just desire attention. like they can't get enough of it on the cheer squad, or beauty pagents, but that usually comes from when they COME from a bad enviorment.
2006-06-18 19:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some girls are like that but not all.
2006-06-18 19:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by CATWOMAN xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because nice guys are a**holes in a different, annoying way.
2006-06-18 19:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by chikkinslayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe, poor baby; did she leave you for another man? That's too bad!! Go find someone else!
2006-06-18 19:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by mama_of_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋