my boyfriend just broke up wtih me cause his parents read his online convo he had with me and said we couldnt go out anymore. Im devasted I dont know how to get over it. I loved him soo much. Ive been having such bad luck with guys lately! ugh
2006-06-18 12:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by green_day_girl52 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well you should have been more careful with what you were saying. Guess you'll have to find someone else out there
2006-06-18 12:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did the conversation say? Think about why they would object to it. Were you saying inappropriate things? Try to talk to his parents and convince them that your relationship was appropriate once you figure out what they objected to. Promise them you won't do it again if it is possible. Remember that your boyfriend's parents have access to your conversations over the Internet so when you chat with him you won't say anything inappropriate. Of course, you may decide you want to say these things. In that case, find a new guy.
2006-06-18 13:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..if his parents can still tell him what to do and what not to do and he has to listen, then I get the impression that you are both under the age of 18 which means you are still very young, which means you shouldn't be taking the relationship thing so serious yet.
Enjoy your tender years while they are there. Don't tie yourself down with the responsibilities and heartaches that come with relationships. You have plenty of time for that.
Granted it's hard, but it's something to think about.
2006-06-18 13:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. i know what you mean.. Well.. If he broke up with you because of his parent's or their opinions, he doesn't respect you or your relationship. and the last thing any girl needs is disrespect.I know from personal experience :-\.. even when u feel like this one is the one, if it gets screwed up there will always be something better.You need respect don't stand for someone who doesn't respect you as a friend, a girlfriend, or especially as a person.
2006-06-18 13:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by boiCrazilutd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he would date you behindhis parents back. From what I can tell, he just wants sex, and you shouldn't fall into that trap. Findsomeone who respects you, and loves you for who you are. I feel that wayabout a girl, and im the happiest guy in the world. Just trustme.
2006-06-18 13:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Veski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what they read but you were probably discussing inappropriate things or have done some things you shouldn't. You need to change your ways. I wouldn't want my son involved when he was too young, either.
2006-06-18 12:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me also...umm i still like this guy but if it wasn't meant to be then it wasnt...now this guys is going out with my bestfriend which im cool with...just let go of guys for a while and mess around with guys mostly in front ur ex...
2006-06-18 12:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by burgers_r_yummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should have been more careful , but here's wat u do , tell him to tell his parents that he broke up with u nd ur just friends, nd he shouldnt save his conv. nd both of u type in white , nd then when u want to read just select the sentence (that way his parents cant read)
2006-06-25 06:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U WERE PROBABLY WERE TALKING ABOUT INAPPROPRIATE THINGS THAT MADE THEM REACT THE WAY THEY DID AND ONE DAY WHEN U ARE ALL GROWN UP AND HAVE KIDS OF YOUR OWN U WILL UNDERSTAND MOVE ON AND TAKE UR TIME GROWING UP.
2006-06-18 12:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST ME WHATEVER YOU WERE DISCUSSING WAS NOT COOL,AND IF YOU ARE HAVING BAD LUCK AT YOUR AGE WITH ALOT GUYS, YOU NEED TO KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON MISS THANG!
2006-06-18 13:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋