my mans .... is so big it hurts,weve tryed all kinds of lube and the same results,weve been doing it for around a year but its still the same,what can i do?
2006-06-18 12:35:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it isnt that i dont like it big but he hurts me wether we take it fast or slow
2006-06-18 12:39:32 · update #1
He is thick and long
2006-06-18 12:45:19 · update #2
Hon he is hitting bottom. there is no more room.
A normal Vagina is only 5 to 6 inches long.. At the end is the mouth of the womb, (Where a baby lives) it is called the cervix.
He is hitting that.. You need to tell him not to put it all in.. They make these donut shape things that slips over his thingie and can help prevent that. He wears them.. They do get so excited, God love em..
God Bless & hugs From Texas.
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2006-06-18 12:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few questions. First, when you say big, do you mean thick or long? or both? Lubrication only helps for thickness. If he is too long you may need to ask him not to fully penetrate you. Also, are you relaxed during the act or uptight because you expect pain? Relaxation is a must. Try a combination of things and see if it helps.
2006-06-18 12:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try going to the doctor and asking him if there is anything you can do. You can try to take it slow and see if that helps. The more often you have sex the better it is suppose to get. There might something they can do for you. I have looked online but I don't see much that would be of much help.
2006-06-18 12:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using astroglide gel and avoid positions that will make you seem tighter, Like doggy style.
A good position to do is you two lying on your sides with him behind and your leg propped up on his waist. Also make sure that you are doing a sufficient amount of foreplay.
2006-06-18 12:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Judy Kick80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will enjoy on him most after you've given birth. Meanwhile, you may use lubricants & there is this thing that has a soothing effect which can cure the pain, just ask your doctor.
2006-06-18 12:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh i wish i had your problem!!!! a man too big hmm...anyway, try going in a little bit..not the whole way. foreplay has a lot to do with it too....natural lube!
2006-06-18 12:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOTS of foreplay and try having sex with you on top, that way you control the depth.
2006-06-18 12:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well **** if ur not tearing or stretching u cant do a thing . . .honestly u have to get loose make him like finger u .. . .honestly thats probally the only way
2006-06-18 12:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. The only thing I can think of is limit the amount of vaginal sex you have. I know you guys don't want that, so I don't know what to say.
2006-06-18 12:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on top that way you control how deep
2006-06-18 12:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by joeraider921 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋