My new bf is staying by his baby mama for a little while so he can spend time with his son. He was just out here for 4 days but wanted to be home for fathers day. He sleeps on the couch when he is there and i beleive that to be true but there is some skepticism in it all cause i have been really hurt before. But when he is there he tells me he loves me right in front of her and he tells her who i am and all but still i wonder can i trust him everyone that i know says that i can and i want to so bad but i am scared. He wants me to get an apartment here soon so that he can come home and be in my arms he says. He also said that he is going nuts without me. So for now do i just deal with the baby mama drama. and trust my man or should i kinda just let him go even though i am honestly in love with him. What would you do if u were in my shoes or has any one dealt with baby mama drama before and what is the best way to deal with her cause i am losing it myself with all of her games.
2006-06-18 12:24:46 · 10 answers · asked by psycholilblondegirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That can be a very hard situation, but itseems like he is being completely honest otherwise he wouldn't have told his baby's momma about you. I would just deal as much as you can for him, and it will work out. This stage will pass, and you will be able to have a good relationsghip.
2006-06-18 12:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't put your life on hold for him, but give him trust until he gives you reason not to trust. I would just hate to see you sitting by waiting for him if he is playing games so be sure to keep living while he decides where his life is going.
2006-06-18 12:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart...you are being used. Be careful your not the next to be a Mom. It sounds like all he cares about is his own needs.
Take Care.
2006-06-18 12:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by The Nanster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is long but I would definitely trust him for now
2006-06-18 12:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by big_j_gizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he has to stay at her place to be with his child? He could have stayed with you or got a hotel room and let the child visit him.
2006-06-18 12:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are games involved, you really don't need the luggage or the drama !!!!
2006-06-18 12:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you want my adv. get rid of your new bf befor you get in it to long
2006-06-18 12:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Avery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, if it's love you will reunite
2006-06-18 12:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quote from Amittyville Horror "Get OOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUTTTTTTTTTTT"
2006-06-18 12:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by wackydac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very long question, but i would be.
2006-06-18 12:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋