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my sister in law walked into my bedroom while I was masturbating; she stayed the night in our second bedroom, and came into our bedroom, while my wife was in the bathroom. She hasnt told my wife, and I havent told my wife, but I feel like I should. I know it was mistake for her to walk into our bedroom, but I still think my wife would be upset that her sister saw me doing this. And before anyone asks the question about me masturbating, I was getting myself ready to be with my wife.

Answer 1

Wow, more embarassing than anything. I would tell your wife and then tell her the next time her sister comes to spend the night, your locking your door! Don't act like it was a big and she won't think it was either. She'll be more upset at her sister than you. If she asks why didn't you tell her sooner, just say you were too embarassed to, but you thought she should know. That's almost as bad as having your kid walk in on you "doing the deed". Like I said, more embarassing than anything else.

Answer 2

Be honest , tell her you were getting yourself ready for her and your sister in law walked in . It shouldn't be a problem unless you did something with her sister ,now that's a whole different ball game. explain to her that you don't know how to tell her but you rather it be heard from you not her sister.All in all it was a mistake and you didn't do anything wrong, but next time lock the door ! If she asked why you didn't say something earlier just say you were embarrassed not that she would be mad,it comes across better. don't deny it cause their sisters and women do talk.

Answer 3

Tough call, but why did your sister in law just stroll on into your bedroom? I think you might want to say something to your wife. Her sister might have ulterior motives and you should never let anyone or anything come between you and your wife. Even family.

Answer 4

That would be embarassing!! What was your SIL doing walking into your room anyhow? I think, before she hears it form her sister, you should tell your wife what happened and how embarassed you were... But nothing happened and if you have a loving relationship, your wife should trust you and she will be happy that you are open with her about a very embarassing situation. Chances are, your SIL is embarassed beyond belief as well!

Answer 5

First off...chill out. So she caught you masterbating, stop acting like a teenager who got caught by his mother. It's no big deal. As long as you were not thinking of your sister in law while you were w/your wife you have nothing to be guilty of.

If your wife ever brings it up blow it off like it was nothing.

Answer 6

I dont see why you should not tell your wife this. This was accidental and not on purpose so why not? Next time lock the bedroom lol!

Answer 7

If it were my sister who walked in on my husband I would want to know. It might save some even more embarassing moments later on. If your wife should find out later she might wonder why you didn't tell her sooner.

Answer 8

That sucks..well, you can bring it up to your wife but I don't think you have to, but since you feel like you do, just tell her. It wasn't your fault, it was the sister's. So don't feel bad.

Answer 9

you should have told her right after and shared your embarrassment. i'm sure your sister inlaw was embarrassed too and doesn't know what to say. you should have cleared the air right away. now you'll have a difficult time laughing about this in the future.

Answer 10

Behave like its nothing... its only human nature, should be mature and not be embaressed about it. Your wife will probably just laugh about the situation.