I mean come on, you should know whether or not you are attractive. If you are then you are but if you arent then you arent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-18 12:16:04 · 20 answers · asked by LaDawn Renee 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
its great to have that kind of confidence and not a low self esteem.
2006-06-18 12:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by luvmadukes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
That question automatically makes you, to me, about the most unattractive person I've ever heard ANYTHING out of, no matter WHAT the heck you look like.
Don't you understand that beauty's in the eye of the beholder? It's people like you who make others so self-conscious, because they believe that somehow if they are "beautiful" in the eyes of the general public, every wish will come true for them. Take me, for example - I generally think I'm not the most good-looking person. I have all these problems with myself - I don't like my nose, my face, my eyes, etc., etc. But recently I was honked at in the street, and when I asked someone about it, they told me that sort of thing didn't happen very often - that I was pretty, or even beautiful. I still don't think I look good. But my point is that there are a million different ways to look at whether or not something is "beautiful" or "cute." You should know that, and I'm ashamed of you that you don't.
Besides, what is it to you if someone you don't find attractive finds him/herself attractive? That gives that person more self-esteem, which makes them happier. What do you have against that?
2006-06-18 19:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by dac2chari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are acting like they are the best thing on earth, then they are probably lacking in self-esteem and trying to prove it more to themselves more than others. If they don't get compliments like other cute people do...well then they give it to themselves. They may also know that confidence is attractive and have gone overboard trying to compensate.
But give these people a break. Just let them do what they feel they have to do. While it may be annoying, it's not harming you at all. Try to put yourself in their shoes.
2006-06-18 19:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by sofun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person sees as ugly another may find really attractive. In God's eyes we are all equally beautiful. Only vain and selfish people judge someone for how they look without really getting to know them. I would suggest you watch the Twilight Zone episode "Eye of the Beholder" and then ask yourself what is beauty and what is ugly.
2006-06-18 19:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're displaying false confidence to hide low self-esteem. We're all guilty of this sometimes; even the drop-dead gorgeous people have issues of self-worth and "posture" to gain attention. People simply want to have their place in the spotlight from time to time, and will act out in many ways to be noticed.
2006-06-18 19:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is only skin deep and fades, sags and wrinkles with age.
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. (ever heard of this one)
If you love yourself it will show and others will love you too.
Some of us are quite able to see past the sin of vanity.
We tend to look for the persons character and heart.
Ugly however goes all the way to the bone. Judging peoples
appearance by your standards or by the looks of barbie & ken
is not even realistic unless you are made of pastic.
Best wishes
2006-06-18 19:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Gary M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to each its own.... some people are ugly on the outside but have the most beautiful personality... that's what matters.. Everyone can't be halle berry or beyonce or gabriel union. As long as your heart is good and pure you will never go wrong.. so get off the looks boo, and start focusing on the heart. it will take you farther then one night stands and booty-calls....
2006-06-18 19:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by pocahontas2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just have really good self-esteem. I'd rather be an average looking person with great self-esteem than an attractive one (to others) and feel crummy about myself.
2006-06-18 19:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people who are pretty and know it sometimes show it off by asking someone if they think that they are pretty! Most of the time the people who say that they are hot are really BUTT UGLY!
2006-06-18 19:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by lipglosslover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Positive thinking. If you think that you are ugly you act ugly and other people will think that you are ugly too. There are beautiful people inside not so beautiful packaging. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...
2006-06-18 19:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must think your pretty cute??? what if i think your ugly would your opinion on that statement change? not everyone has the same taste in people, and some people arent superficial!
2006-06-18 19:24:54 · answer #11 · answered by meredith o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋