2006-06-18 12:15:29 · 17 answers · asked by BABYGURL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HE CHEATED WHEN WE WERE ON A ONE MONTH BREAK. SO WE WERE NOT TECHNICALLY TOGETHERM BUT I STILL WANT ADVICE. AND I JUST FOUND OUT LAST WEEK.
2006-06-18 16:14:07 · update #1
HE CHEATED WHEN WE WERE ON A ONE MONTH BREAK. SO WE WERE NOT TECHNICALLY TOGETHER, BUT I STILL WANT ADVICE. AND I JUST FOUND OUT LAST WEEK.
2006-06-18 16:14:31 · update #2
Obviously its still bothering you and you feel you need to say something. I would do so only if you think you're ready for his reaction. Why you would stay with someone you know cheated on you is your choice, but now its having an effect on you. This may turn your relationship around so be prepared for whatever he may say.
2006-06-18 12:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have been cheating on your husband once you reignited this relationship from the previous. You had to nicely known on your heart you have been violating your husband's have confidence. You mentioned the guy replace right into a participant so which you had to nicely known issues could improve. the only ingredient that stopped an entire fledged sexual stumble upon is probable with the aid of fact your husband found out.i think of your marriage could be saved in case you the two see a marriage counselor if he does not decide to flow with the aid of fact he feels he's finished no longer something incorrect flow by making use of your self. btw i do no longer think of your husbands is harmless in this concern. perchance he had began to take you with none attention and it replace into friendly to get interest from an previous flame.
2016-10-31 02:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was 2 years ago, you want to be with him still and you know for certain it was just once and he hasnt done anything like that since. i would not bring it up it would only cause problems. but if he has done it again recently than bring it up when you talk about the other one and prob get rid of him
2006-06-18 12:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you known for a long time and kept it to yourself for this long or did you recently find out that he cheated? If you have known and lived with it, let it go, but if you just found out, I would say something.
2006-06-18 12:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 yrs ago why bring it up now? if u havent said nothing by now it kinda make no difference
or are u just finding out bout it and it happen 2 yrs ago?
if that the case then leave his a%$
2006-06-18 12:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Priceless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on when you found out. If you found out 2 years ago and never said anything, then maybe you should leave it alone. However, if you just found out about it and it changes your relationship with him, then you should definitely talk to him about it.
2006-06-18 12:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulbabbette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course say something. It will eat you up inside. 3 things can happen. 1. You break up. 2. You end up trusting him and forget it. 3. You get great guilt gifts (Make him pay).
2006-06-18 12:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt you tell him this 2 years ago and why are you still with him?
2006-06-18 12:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still with the guy after he cheated on you. WTF. Why?
You should have told him the momment you found out. Let him know you have bigger balls than himself. He was a coward not to say a word to you. Dump his *** and find yourself a better man. Cheaters are always cheaters.
2006-06-18 12:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by NïghtStalkër_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the point of bringing it up now if you didnt say anything 2 years ago?
2006-06-18 12:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by superflygurl123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋