why is that i always feel like im the worse thing that ever touch earth, my parents dont like me, i have little friends at school, most people just pick on me for no reason. i always wonder if life wud be better if i was dead, but i just sometimes realise i have a boyfriend who loves me dearly, and if i die i wud only leave him in grief. i wish life would be much better than how it is..... seriously.. im 13.
2006-06-18 11:45:05 · 22 answers · asked by beautyprincess 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You might be depressed. I advice you to start talking to someone, Maybe your boyfriend. Find someone you can express yourself with.If you dont have someone at home or a close friend trying therapy....
Oh and life wouldnt be better if you were dead because when your dead there is no life. Your very young and have alot to live for not just a boyfriend. Think about it, you have high school, college, marriage,babies,independence,etc. You have alot going for you. And always remember your not the only one who feels this way...
2006-06-18 16:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lasey 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are on the roll coaster ride of emotions! I am assuming you and puberty have finally met up. You might be pre-menstrual. I don't think you have depression, but pre-menstrual is just as bad. Everything in our life at this time seems so blown out of portion that we feel like its us against the world. Been there! Try a over the counter med's, like Midol. If you are having some bloating going on, that to makes us feel soooo bad! So drink lots of water, to eliminate water gain. Some B complexes will naturally take excess water off you too. Are you craving chocolate? Bingo!.. indulge yourself a little. Great for the endorphins. (Little messages going to your brain to tell you, you are happy.) When your feeling down, the best way for a quick pick up is to get outside and walk. This also causes your endorphins level to raise. Good luck, Sweetie, your one of us now! (A woman)
2006-06-18 21:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey. You are 13 years old and you are just going through puberty and becoming a woman. Hormones make you feel crazy. I'm only concerned that you say your parents don't like you. Kids in school make fun of anyone who doesn't conform to their silly cliques and wear the brand newest crap, I always got picked on because we were poor folks. These are the golden years of youth!! Find some hobbies you enjoy and focus your energies on positive things. Write poetry, write short stories...paint, read, learn how to braid hair. Don't waste your time feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-06-18 18:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something in your life has not went the way that you wanted it to go and you really need to talk to someone about it. you are too young to be stricken with grief. the Internet is not where you are going to find the help for the problem that you seem to have. and to answer your question life wouldn't be better if you are dead. if you are dead then you have no LIFE if you feel like you need to talk to someone you can email me carmelapplebrown@yahoo.com. i don't have all the answers but i can listen to you whenever you want to talk. my computer is always on
2006-06-18 19:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously depressed.. This is NORMAL!! It's okay, being a teenager has its difficulties.. You are only human.. The best thing to do is see a counselor for some help.. People think going to counseling is only for "crazy" people.. That is not true.. Just remember being in your teens is the most difficult time in your life.. Get some help.. I promise this you will get better.. No one has to know..
2006-06-18 19:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings you describe indicate depression. Depression is a disease. People might be willing to offer support and are offering it here but you really need a doctor. Start by confiding either in your school counselor or general doctor or any kind non-judgmental adult you look up to. But it won't work out without either or both therapy/medication. The pull yourself up by your bootstraps school of thought only makes you feel guilty, cause you chemically can't..
2006-06-18 19:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need to talk? You can email me at amy_lancaster@sbcglobal.net. Baby, you are depressed and need to get some major help. Talk to your parents, Dr., counselor, teacher, someone to get help. You are too young to be feeling this way. Just remember that no matter what God will always and has always loved you. Do you have a Pastor or Sunday SChool teacher that you could talk to?
2006-06-18 18:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by AMY L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a low self esteem issue you really need to talk to some one, i mean someone who knows what they are doing. Please do not let this problem go on. It can effect who you are, you know your person on the inside. Your only 13 you should be happy and enjoying your youth. I know where you are coming from. And i do not now all the issues but if your parents really do not like you that is their problem not yours. But maybe because you don't feel happy right now maybe your parents do love you, it is just hard to see that when you have emotional issues.
2006-06-18 18:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru the exact same thing at the same age... I think it's hormones... If you need someone to talk to you can IM me lp_ladypimp... I'm also not an adult, I'm 16, so I'll prolly understand all that school crap better than some people...
2006-06-18 19:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are suicidal/suffer from serious depression. Go to a trusted adult or friend or even your boyfriend. I'm sure your boyfriend will help you out if he really cares about you so tell him what your problem is if he is no help go to a doctor or school counsel they are most definite to help with your problem.
2006-06-18 19:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by bsktballchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋