This guy I know seemed to be playing games with me so when I ran into him at the bar one night, I did not approach him, I continued to flirt/talk with other guys, he later came to me and said"your killing me". what did he mean by that? And now, a month later, I have not heard from him, I sent him a text message once and no reply. Why is he doing this?
2006-06-18 11:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Maybe he was just being sarcastic or funny? Or he thought you'd be flattered?
I'm a guy and I'll tell you: either A) He didn't mean it or B) He lost his phone with your number and the text message was never received (this didn't happen - I'm just trying to save your feelings here. See A)
2006-06-18 11:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Phil R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that day at the bar he was letting you act to know you better, some insecurity issues there...About the text message there are many explanations for that, sometimes seems that is related to that day and maybe is not, ask a friend or someone to send him text and see whats happens.
2006-06-18 18:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by frankomty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing...work on your grammar. It's "you're killing me" not "your killing me".
Along with your writing, try to work on yourself rather than worrying about how you appeal to a particular man. A woman with great self-esteem (e.g. caring about education, regular fitness, good hygiene, meditation, yoga, no drugs or smoking, etc.) has a magnetic draw on men. If you care for yourself, then men will care about you - and they won't play games either - because you will attract quality AND quantity.
Good luck! (Oh and if you take my tips, this guy will either come back to you or you'll never remember who he is for all the fun you are having).
2006-06-18 18:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister, you know EXACTLY what he's doing -- you said it at the first. He's playing games. Don't waste your time with him -- there are all of those other guys to flirt / talk with, right? Find one who will say what he means -- and mean what he says.
2006-06-18 18:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by mother_jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably likes you and doesn't know how to show it.. he's jealous when you flirt with other guys, you know. He definitely shouldn't have been playing games, though. He probably decide to leave you alone since he doesn't think you want him. If it's worth it, talk to him and give it a chance, if it doesn't work it wasn't meant to be....Bless you and good luck!!
2006-06-18 18:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to move on. When you ignored him at the bar he took it that it was over, so now it's over. Best of success with your next. Live, Learn, and Love.
2006-06-18 18:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by RTD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a flirt you don't know why the guy moved on.
2006-06-18 18:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you call him and find out. I hate mind games.
2006-06-18 18:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tomas Mora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him
2006-06-18 18:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you a lot and thinks your arent interested if you like him tell him how you feel
2006-06-18 18:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋