I never have a crush on someone?do u think im asexual?

Question

i don't like sex or maybe a little. im 15.

is this normal

to tell you the true i don't know if im bisexual

Answer 1

lol...asexual? no child you are not asexual.

You seem bright, talented and sensible. I'm betting you are average if not awesome in school. Maybe a little on the mousy side, but that is beyond the point I was trying to make.

Just because you have no crushes, or desire or want to be with someon else does not mean you are not capable of it. You've got lots of things on your plate. Being obsessed with someone else, like everyone else, might be below you. Maybe you realize this all ready. There is definitely no race to jump into bed with anyone in this matter.

Look around you. Do you see others primping in the bathroom? Wearing designer clothing? Making one side of the story and then changing it to suit their needs (and keep them out of trouble)? That is the need of those others to pop out and feel needed and liked because they are following the herd mentality. My advice to you is don't be a cow. Heh, I mean, don't go lemmingly follow the others because everyone else is doin' it.

You have a whole world to experience, and from the little you have said, you are well on your way to seeing the world, instead of bein' blinded by statistics. Don't you dare fret, you're day is comin'...just wait a couple more years when everyone around you starts to fade in beauty, and the guys actually start thinkin' about what they want for the future.

Answer 2

Actually when applied to humans, asexual means not interested in having a sexual relationship with either sex. In other words, with no sex drive or interest in sex at all.

How liberating that must be! Would that more people were like that - just think how sex crime statistics would plummet!

Given your age I wouldn't worry about it just yet. The time may come in a few years when you meet someone you really fall for and want to have sex with. When it does, I hope you'll take your time and think carefully and have respect for your body.

If you never meet that person, then you may have to think about whether you want to be part of a companionship which doesn't include sex, and whether you want romance, and what you will do about it. But I reckon you've a good ten years before you need to post those questions.

Answer 3

Have you had sex? If you had, it can be less than pleasurable when neither party knows what they're doing, and of course experience comes with age. If you haven't, darlin', don't worry about it! Odds are you just haven't found people you are really attracted to. Even if you never do really fall for someone (which I would say is EXTREMELY unlikely - you're going to live another 60-80 years, you will almost definitely find SOMEONE you will in this time) that does not make you abnormal in any way. Some people do not enjoy the physical aspect of a relationship as much as others, but that's ok, too. Just don't worry about it, you've got plenty of time to learn about your body and your sexuality.

Answer 4

You are way too young to worry about liking sex, or even having it.

I had crushes on teachers (and one particularly funny, young, and very pretty librarian) by the time I was your age, but there is no such thing as normal or abnormal at that age.

Don't rush into anything. I doubt your are a-sexual. You're probably just a late bloomer! So, give yourself as much time to figure out who you like as you need.. Better that than regretting something later.

In the meantime, expand your social circle. Hang out with groups of friends, meet new people, get involved in some social activities. Make sure you have plenty of date possibilities to chose from when you are finally ready to date someone.

Answer 5

At your age, it's a bit early to think "asexual". Some people aren't suited to laying down with just anyone, the have higher demands for partners. This is not a good thing or a bad thing, it's just a thing.

Just keep on keeping on and see if you meet someone in the next ten years or so that makes you change your mind. If not, nothing lost. If so, you'll be glad you waited before assuming a personality trait that is not yet in evidence.

Answer 6

No I dont think your asexual. My gosh at 15 I think it is wonderful your not interested in sex. If you were 20, 25 or something like that, I would be concerned. There are so many 15 year olds that get pregnant when they should be enjoying other things. I was not really interested in sex until I was about 18.

Answer 7

You're only 15, it's completely normal. You just haven't met the kind of guy that you like, or maybe you're being too picky. What you should do is start hanging out with different types of guys and try to pick up on which of their qualities you like. Then when you meet a guy with most of those qualities you should have a crush on him. About the sex, i'm sure you can find a guy that doesn't want to or can't have sex with you but will still love you. There are lots of guys out there who can't have sex anymore but still need someone to love them. Please don't have sex until you're married though.

Answer 8

All those people who say 'your'e to young' 'havn't met the right guy yet' ect. they obviously arn't asexual, the fact is that most 15 year olds do experiance sexual attraction or at least had a crush or two. think about if youv'e ever 'liked' someone, what did you 'like about them? was it their looks? personality? both?. there is also romantic orientation so take that into account when 'picking a label' i found that finding my romantic orientation first really helped me when i was discovering myself, don't try and rush anything though, take it as it comes and observe your interactions with others e.g how to you react when someone compliments you? did you notice how hot the p.e techer was or did your friend have to point it out to you? take some time to yourself and think about how youv'e acted in your past. good luck :)

Answer 9

Asexual means you reproduce without a male partner. Unless your pregnant without having any outside form of fertalization, asexual is not word for you. I didn't have my first crush till 16 and it was on another female. Only time will tell. Leave your options open. 15 is too young anyway. Be patient. I haven't had sex yet either.

Answer 10

Actually - You're normal. 15 is young to be having a lot sexual feelings, and most girls that age who are having sexual feelings are feeling that way because they were exposed to sex too early (through media, experiences, peer pressure, whatever). You're fine. You haven't had a crush on someone yet because you are still waiting for someone who is worth having a crush on. Good for you. You'll have more respect for yourself later because you didn't rush things.